Re: being rude

Asking for help; apparently I am the rudest person alive - I am constantly being told that I am being rude, and when I ask them to describe what it is that I am actually doing, their response is often ...

Fri Feb 17, 2023 11:52 pm • 35 Replies • 7116 Views

Long term relationship is too vanilla

I’mME,

To clarify not everyone may apply to this however I agree with her that in my case I do.

The toys were used a few times after they arrived but not much after. It’s hard to get her to com ...

Wed Feb 15, 2023 10:26 pm • 15 Replies • 2435 Views

Re: Blood and Electricity

Casually strolling through profiles, I've noticed that blood/knife play and electricity play are fairly common limits. I'm curious as to why this is. I'm certainly not trying to limit-shame anyone, bu ...

Wed Feb 15, 2023 8:29 pm • 6 Replies • 1083 Views

Long term relationship is too vanilla

PlayfulPain,

*It’s hard to argue with that when I fit into that category.*

I still do not understand how to quote part of a post, italicize it, make it stand out so I use asterisks to denote wh ...

Wed Feb 15, 2023 8:15 pm • 15 Replies • 2435 Views

How to find the right DOM

First off, I’m sorry this happened to you, truly no individual deserves this. Second, I had a very similar experience with the first Dom I found online. We ended up having a full relationship, dating ...

Tue Feb 14, 2023 11:15 pm • 42 Replies • 17580 Views

Advice Needed

It has been my experience that people who are either submissive or dominant, are that way because of certain traits in their personality.

Some people are natural born leaders, because it seems to b ...

Sun Feb 12, 2023 5:50 am • 43 Replies • 6097 Views

Advice Needed

I wasn't going to post again on this thread.

But having received a message of thanks this evening, from a sub who has been going through some of the things I have been trying to explain to certain ...

Sun Feb 12, 2023 5:05 am • 43 Replies • 6097 Views

Advice Needed

Defender
You need to stop. You also need to own that you OPENLY ADVOCATED A SOLUTION THAT IS COUNTER TO WHAT A BASE TENANT OF kink, BDSM, D/s, M/s is founded on.

Nobody is being high and mighty ...

Fri Feb 10, 2023 8:12 am • 43 Replies • 6097 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Upsidedown,

I would like to add to the things you bring up. If someone starts off by calling me a cundump, not only are they showing their lack of knowledge , they are also telling me they think I ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 10:05 pm • 113 Replies • 16491 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

this may be a kinky website and yes, we are all interested in some form of fun, but do not treat us like meat or assume because we are here you can sleep with us or do what you want.

I especially ...

Wed Feb 08, 2023 9:51 pm • 113 Replies • 16491 Views