Turn offs in new conversations

Am I the only one that is a little judgy in their choice of nicknames? I’m pretty okay with whatever, except when it includes thinks like slaveowner1273838. And due to something a dom told me once, I ...

Mon Nov 28, 2022 8:34 am • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

So I’m a sub, and my wife is vanilla, and this happened…

CuzKitKat,

Did you want to have an orgasm? We're y'all being intimate?
Actually neither one of those answers would make a difference.

This is unacceptable , a violation of sharing something i ...

Mon Nov 28, 2022 1:51 am • 9 Replies • 4463 Views

Am I doing something wrong...?

Sweet'ncuriousvixen,
Hello,
Everyone had good advice, something to tuck under your hat.

I double down on Master Butch's advice, meaning quit w/the sex. You may find yourself in a situation that ...

Mon Nov 28, 2022 1:40 am • 12 Replies • 2448 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Gee CSI,
Dom's actually bring up a news topics to you?
That would be a welcome change...
🤣

A young lady from Hong Kong contacted me recently (contacted me, not vice versa) and I spoke to her a ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 10:05 pm • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

1. Since I'm looking for local residents, an immediate offer to move to my city.

"Um, you don't _know_ me and you're offering to move halfway across the continent / world based off of what you ski ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:59 pm • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Finally, my profile is deliberately thin because I'm not looking to start anything beyond casual conversation-- so it should be quite easy to read as opposed to other, more "substantial" ones t ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:49 pm • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

1."What are you into "
Red flag regardless of their title
2.The 20 question
If so someone approaches you
They are the ones who are obligated to an introduction.. Not waste your time seeing wha ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:36 pm • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

People that focus solely on the physical traits, body parts or actions make my body parts withdraw as far as humanly possibly. I cannot express how much this makes me cringe. If we haven't talked abou ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:35 pm • 113 Replies • 16458 Views

Question from a beginner

OP,

You know what you wrote, so I won't repeat it. I don't mince words.
Protocol for a dynamic is that if another Dom wants to play with someone's else's sub, they contact the subs Dom and they w ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:26 pm • 9 Replies • 1926 Views

You there!

Skipped school the day they were reviewing humor and irony did we? Enough with the "but I respect you" grandstanding. I don't know if I'm insignificant or the the original poster (spoiler alert, it is ...

Sun Nov 27, 2022 8:22 pm • 16 Replies • 1682 Views