Abuse veiled as protocol

By definition a person cannot consent to abuse.

That being said legally a person cant consent to BDSM either.

I do not believe that consent nullifys abuse.

I believe that abuse is alive an ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 8:22 am • 26 Replies • 3849 Views

Abuse veiled as protocol

Masterbear,

I have never heard or read the thought that some of high protocol is seen as abuse. Where do you read or hear that?
SSC is a school or thought but there is also R. A. C. K.

Risk A ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 8:13 am • 26 Replies • 3849 Views

How to find the right DOM

This is so well-written and so beautifully said. I am so grateful that I have a chance to read this post. Thank you!

"You have to understand, my nature isn't submissive."

I just want to stop by ...

Tue Aug 30, 2022 7:32 pm • 42 Replies • 17551 Views

Need advice anyone?

I noticed that the OP is about 6 months old. I hope that you and your sub have worked out the issue.

The OP has taken down his profile and will likely not be reading this resurrected thread.
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Tue Aug 30, 2022 7:27 pm • 13 Replies • 5164 Views

Need advice anyone?

Get away from all the crap you read on the internet. Punishment is to be uniquely indicative to the offending behavior. The point of a punishment is o prevent said behavior from being repeated. Think ...

Mon Aug 29, 2022 12:39 pm • 13 Replies • 5164 Views

Re: Need advice anyone?

Ok your training a sub but you need to punish him but here the thing.
The sub eats pain up he makes it feel good to him When you flog him he turns and smiles it goes for any impact play.
You try to ...

Mon Aug 29, 2022 12:24 pm • 13 Replies • 5164 Views

Gender identity ideology

simplylaura,

Speeakinf for myself, I do my own legwork when it comes to science and make my own decisions.
I also have a logical thinking brain.

I have been reading each comment some does no ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 9:48 pm • 113 Replies • 21096 Views

Gender identity ideology

Recal that this is an opportunity for conversation. Conversation whose purpose is the exchange of ideas.

Whether I agree with Jashine or not, I found them calm, logical and open for discourse. Regr ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 8:47 pm • 113 Replies • 21096 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

Gemini and service Dom. Of course. Constant tensions between the hetero male and hetero female. Though my life, my profession, and my partners all reflect this dualism entanglement of the Gemini, I fu ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 3:18 am • 78 Replies • 21534 Views

BDSM and Zodiac Signs

minasubforu - "I'm just curious. Why do you have to be mean in order to be a Dom? Some Come for example are gentlemen doms. Not a mean bone in their body. Just wondering."
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Dominance is not pred ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 3:14 am • 78 Replies • 21534 Views