Most men don't blog. Why?

Just a stab, there's probably some correlation between the fact that more women are readers than men. More women journal than men as well. I think they by and large are far more comfortable with the w ...

Tue Sep 15, 2020 4:53 am • 35 Replies • 12025 Views

At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

I sort of realized two different things at two different times. I realized I had a Dominant streak early on. I was probably 13. It was my first time, and my gf at the time and her friend had skipped s ...

Sat Aug 15, 2020 3:45 pm • 95 Replies • 30224 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

Any question is better than just a "Hey" or "Hi." I feel at least if a question is asked, that at least shows effort. With that said, it doesn't happen very often anymore, but the number one question ...

Sat Aug 15, 2020 12:34 am • 126 Replies • 41176 Views

How am I supposed to behave during sex? What do you like in a sub?

Listen and learn. Never assume. It's all about communication I feel. Each Dom, hell each person, is going to be different. So, i make it a point to be very precise about what I like and what I don't l ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 9:44 pm • 15 Replies • 6332 Views

Would you ever tell them?

I don't advertise, but I also don't hide or deny what I am. I think that's disingenuous. I spend a lot of time trying to get people to open up and accept themselves, so, to bury what I am, that sends ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 9:33 pm • 58 Replies • 18634 Views

Would you ever tell them?

I don't advertise, but I also don't hide or deny what I am. I think that's disingenuous. I spend a lot of time trying to get people to open up and accept themselves, so, to bury what I am, that sends ...

Fri Aug 14, 2020 9:33 pm • 58 Replies • 18634 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

When I was working on my Creative Writing degree I wrote a lot of dark twisty fiction. I think it kinda surprised people when they saw me or spoke to me, and then read my work. People started expectin ...

Wed Aug 12, 2020 5:18 am • 267 Replies • 105847 Views

Anal

I can count on one hand how many times I've had a potential tell me she likes anal. Nearly all tell me they hate it. However after discussing, I usually learn they hate it because of a bad experience. ...

Sun Jul 12, 2020 11:14 pm • 23 Replies • 9612 Views

Just three words

On your knees.

Sat Jul 11, 2020 7:06 am • 65 Replies • 18390 Views

I'd like to pose a question.

Oh, I'd be calling them a tease and wanting things to get rated R. lol

Honestly though, that's a door I tend to leave open. I think it's sort of a way to communicate. It gives an indication of what ...

Sat Jul 11, 2020 5:25 am • 28 Replies • 12648 Views