What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Intelligence
Openness
Empathy
Determination

Thu Jul 09, 2020 2:17 am • 119 Replies • 28811 Views

Anal

I like MasterTrainerT's point above. Your limits have to be respected. That respect in time, as well as changes in your comfort with it, might mean that can be revisited later. Make no promises, accep ...

Tue Jul 07, 2020 5:59 pm • 23 Replies • 8909 Views

Apologies

That is a maddening kop out when I hear that.

Tue Jul 07, 2020 2:41 am • 30 Replies • 7445 Views

Apologies

Apologise for the things you have done wrong, own them. Don't apologise just because you feel you should, but because it is right that you should. Sometimes that can take some reflection before you ca ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 6:45 pm • 30 Replies • 7445 Views

Masturbation

I'd say if it is preventing you from performing necessary tasks in life or maintaining healthy relationships, then It might be something to show concern for.

If it doesn't cause you any negative im ...

Tue Jun 30, 2020 7:39 pm • 13 Replies • 5432 Views

Open to all: What's your "hook"?

No need to rush, Moongirl

Mon Jun 29, 2020 3:33 pm • 73 Replies • 18961 Views

Open to all: What's your "hook"?

Over the years, my visual hook has become lost. It used to be more physical based, but over time it became what I could sense from a person rather than what they look like. I accept and recognise attr ...

Sun Jun 28, 2020 4:21 pm • 73 Replies • 18961 Views

Is it hard for some to connect this way(online)?

Its difficult for sure to meet and get to know people without the luxury of being able to observe them. But all the traits that you can see in person, they exist or have something approximating them o ...

Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:53 pm • 13 Replies • 5068 Views

Am I doing something wrong?

They need to earn those things. Something given too freely lacks true value.

It is their problem and not at all yours - other than having to be dealing with them, unfortunately.

Fri Jun 26, 2020 2:44 pm • 16 Replies • 5563 Views

just got ghosted??

Ghosting is sadly all too common and it is certainly not restricted to a gender or a title/position.

I always make the effort to say goodbye. Sometimes... it's a real effort!

Even when someone ...

Thu Jun 25, 2020 6:31 pm • 24 Replies • 10325 Views