Subs Pursuing Doms

I enjoy both sides, selecting and contacting, but also when contacted(it's hot to know a sub is that interested) .

Mon Dec 28, 2020 1:15 pm • 60 Replies • 24108 Views

I'm the sub yet he tries to please me in every way

All D/s, M/s or even Vanilla relationships work better when both partners want to do what it takes to make the other happy and fulfilled. I think it is a sign of a good Dom that you feel so happy, I w ...

Sun Dec 06, 2020 7:01 pm • 9 Replies • 3805 Views

Does Money Matter?

I agree with the consensus that it should not have an impact but like all things if not dealt with correctly it can, for instance if the sub is used to travelling first class and goes on a journey wit ...

Sun Dec 06, 2020 5:18 pm • 95 Replies • 39991 Views

Why Block conversation?

Thank you all for your responses, some different thoughts all valid and well presented. As I said blocking for a reason I get, but a message to say "we are focusing on our relationship at the moment" ...

Tue Aug 11, 2020 11:23 am • 18 Replies • 5893 Views

Why Block conversation?

I have pondered this and can't quite see why a sub is told by the Dom to block previous Dom's they communicated with?

I get the you should get all the Domination you need from your Dom.
I get you ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 2:28 pm • 18 Replies • 5893 Views

Are we our own worst enemy

I have ben reading lots of posts over the last few months.
all are along the lines of
1. This Dom treated me like shit because i wouldn't bow down to him the first time he messaged me.
2. I met a D ...

Sun Jul 26, 2020 6:17 pm • 3 Replies • 2503 Views

Dominant or Master...

There are a number of good posts on here, I personally agree and disagree with some
A master tradesman is at the top of their game, a Master in our world is different, it is in some ways a title, if ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 12:32 pm • 16 Replies • 7185 Views

Bdsm tips for a submissive woman

Diane,
as already stated a DOM should be aware of the devices impact, he wont necessarily try every paddle, every flogger, but if its different (material, length stiffness etc), the DOM needs to unde ...

Mon Jul 06, 2020 11:24 am • 2 Replies • 2455 Views

just got ghosted??

Ghosting is not nice, no one should have to suffer it, but as stated by all its a fact if life, some people just aren't nice (or respectful) . I disagree with the fact people have busy jobs, a message ...

Fri Jul 03, 2020 8:44 pm • 24 Replies • 11239 Views

How To Punish

communication is key, evolving is good but must be agreed by all parties, and if need be added into future sessions not the present one.

you both need to be clear about what it is you want from eve ...

Fri Jul 03, 2020 11:11 am • 21 Replies • 10187 Views