High Pedestal and Expectations?

Thanks for the insight! Not sure about the part where you said as a sub you expect fear from the Domme? But there were a lot of good points to consider.

Wed Aug 26, 2020 12:37 am • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Great response @pigforgoddess! I like that perspective a lot and totally agree.

Tue Aug 25, 2020 5:12 am • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Thank you for your perspective Knightsundere! Yes I think you're right. If the fantasy or attraction is ONLY about sex, it's part of the problem. I still think that I'd like to be prepared to meet exp ...

Tue Aug 18, 2020 12:21 am • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Thanks for the advice Miss Melisandre! That seems like a good place to start.

Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:44 pm • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Thanks for the support! I didn’t make a very confident sounding post but I had to ask! So nice to hear you relate ☺️

Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:30 am • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

Hello Fam!

As a woman who feels as though she's finally linked all of the puzzle pieces together and realized I'm meant to be in the D/s lifestyle, I have some concerns that I'm trying to solve by ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 8:42 am • 35 Replies • 10461 Views

Contradicting Desires?

Is it common for male subs to enjoy being submissive but act like they don't? I don't even mean a brat, but I think the fun would be in "forcing" a guy to be submissive against his will (obviously con ...

Sat Jul 11, 2020 12:07 pm • 3 Replies • 2431 Views

Good and Bad Punishment?

Thanks everyone for the thoughtful responses! This helps a lot. I really appreciate you taking the time

Tue Jun 23, 2020 5:53 am • 9 Replies • 4300 Views

Good and Bad Punishment?

Hello! This is my first post about anything like this so thanks in advance for your patience. I'm feeling a little confused and I have a genuine question about punishment. I feel like there's a good t ...

Sun Jun 21, 2020 7:13 am • 9 Replies • 4300 Views