What are some clever ways you've discreetly incorporated bondage in public

What are some clever ways you've discreetly incorporated bon

TheDankLord​(switch male) • Feb 29, 2020

This is something I've been thinking about recently. I've always liked the idea of doing bondage outdoors, and bringing restraints and power exchange outside of the bedroom now and then. However, I also don't like the idea of doing bondage in a super obvious way in public. It can make others uncomfortable, they never consented to be part of your "scene", and for those of us such as myself who have professional lives where reputation matters a lot, I wouldn't exactly want the whole world to know what I'm into let alone see me or a partner I'm with chained up, gagged, etc in an obvious way.

I've had some ideas about this on my own. Collars that are discrete, things like chastity devices and certain leg braces that can be work under closing. One idea that really interests me is if one were to go out around twilight on a hike and bike trail that is not very busy, wearing black handcuffs and/or leg irons that wouldn't be easy to spot in low light conditions. But I'm curious what other people have done to bring bondage out in their daily life without being super obvious about it or imposing their lifestyle on others.

Duke Montefort​(dom male) • Feb 29, 2020

1. Try giving your sub/slave a tablespoon of something they enjoy. Jelly, honey, candy. Only the rule is they can not chew, talk, or swallow until you snap your fingers. Take them to the store, museum, theatre, or all of the above. Then talk to them. Ask them questions, but don't snap your fingers. Direct the questions so they have to talk to change your mind, but don't snap your fingers. If the shake their head or nod it doesn't count. You get a gag. Public acceptable, and she is straining to hear the snap of your fingers.

IowaDom​(dom male) • Feb 29, 2020

I always thought it would be unique to place one of those "lush" remote control vibrators on her and go out shopping, dinner, movie, whatever .. then control it via phone at unexpected times

The Number one Sir​(dom male) • Feb 29, 2020

I have one of those Lush remote vibrators with the phone app. Have yet to use it on a willing sub but certainly see the appeal.

Can be used in a lot of ways such as bringing her up to the edge and teaching her to focus on maintaining her outward normal demeanor in a very public setting, orgasm control to teach her who is ultimately in control of her release (me). Orgasm denial if she doesn't follow instructions correctly.

Edging her in public for later private release, building her arousal and holding it at a very high level, letting her come down only to bring her up again to the edge.

Very appealing

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} • Feb 29, 2020

I LOVE the thought of "secrets". If you are into Rope Bondage, there are sooooooo many SEXY undergarment ties (Undies, bras, harness, etc). The thought of wearing them underneath, and out and about, sends such a rush!

The remote controlled devices are a blessing and curse (depending how sadistic you are) LOL.

Then there is so many "toys/trinkets".... Nipple clamps, anal plugs, collars, etc.

My favourite is.... writing in Red Lipstick, where "he" wants stating "His property" .... That to me is sexy as fuck!!!

Now the mind drifts as I walk through a mall with all these delicious thoughts of "what ifs"!!! 😈😂😈

No Body​(dom male) • Mar 5, 2020

I loved taking one sub to the movies or some place public and dark the play with her by pulling on her nipple and clit clamps. While doing this she could not say anything or let out a moan. Cumming was not allowed until I gave her the ok. So many times she left her seat wet and creamy.

Not exactly bondage, but more public nudity in our suv.

wizzard​(dom male){A Daddy Do} • Mar 5, 2020

What my late sub and I did was every time we went for a drive out of the city, whether it was an hour to the nearby casino or long road trip, she was to strip naked, slowly and in traffic, and she would normally masturbate and take a nap until we reached our destination. When on long trips having her naked next to me to fondle and play with was a good pastime to help to keep me alert and comfortable while driving. I made sure to not lose focus of the road, and the driving conditions did sometimes hinder the amount of time I could spend on her. Several times I found it necessary to pull over for a quickee, which is the best reason to have her already nude. I'm sure that the passing cars got a good 2-second show as they drove by.
Back on the road, it was really cool when passing a truck, the driver could see down into our little truck and see her sexy body, we got several honks and they always thrilled us both. We did have one time when a border patrol unit pulled us over because they saw us from a bridge that she was nude and I had a hand on her, they rushed to catch up with us about 2 miles down the road, and when they pulled us over they asked her if everything was ok, she said yes, she was fine, and if there was a problem with her being naked while driving? they said as I knew already, "no its not against the law", just for me to be careful and to pay attention to the road. They followed us for a few miles and then went off to guard our border I guess...

AKittenforSir​(sub female){JohnBond} • Mar 5, 2020

Markers. Write on the sub’s body. Put some of the most naughty things just below the collar line or hem of a dress so that if the sub moves or bends a certain way the ink peeks through. If the sub doesn’t want it to be seen they’ll have to be conscious of their movements the whole time (at a fancy restaurant, and parent-teacher conference, work, etc).

Bunnie • Mar 6, 2020

@ Duke Montefort,

I love your suggestion... that’s awesome.

@ TheDankLord,

I think it depends a lot on what you consider to be “bondage” as to how limited this makes things.

There’s the obvious ones... rope under clothes, body harnesses etc.

Ones where it probably depends on how one defines bondage... such as not wearing any underwear, or as AKittenforSir says... body writing etc. or things inserted inside the sub (plugs or whatever).

I love the idea of chastity. The first Dom I met spoke of a “collar” that appealed to him which was to make a small piece of jewellery like a thin chain link that clipped to the skin of the labia... creating like a chastity style piece of jewellery... very pretty, and for me, it felt very much like a form of bondage. Adding a little tinkling bell as well was something we discussed. There were so many things I loved about this idea.

From there it could go to piercings. Piercings can even be used for bondage or chastity.

TheDankLord​(switch male) • Mar 15, 2020

Some great ideas from everyone!

Also, maybe since everyone is wearing masks for the coronavirus a gag under a mask could be another idea lol