Being Naked

Sweet Ginger​(sub female)​{⚓ } • Dec 20, 2024

In a nutshell to me its being truly vulnerable ..bearing one's heart.

Bunnie • Dec 21, 2024

It’s no longer separate for me. So, it isn’t easy to take off my clothes and have sex, because my heart and soul comes with that. It doesn’t necessarily mean I’m seeking a relationship, but I’d rather keep my clothes on than have sex without some form of connection.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Dec 21, 2024

Yeah, getting naked physically doesn't bare my soul. It takes someone who sees their soul to see my soul, and they're never going to see it if I don't. I think I can know myself then turn away and have to see myself again as I also have have to adjust the focus to see someone else and all they're going through.

Ultimately I want to be completely transparent with someone who can be completely transparent with me. What more can we want than to see and be seen. You know, get naked beyond our nudity, naked hearts, naked minds, naked souls.

B L O N D I E​(sub female) • Dec 21, 2024

I have given birth to three children naturally, at home, with no drugs or interventions. In all three, I was totally naked and my mind switched into a base, non-rational form of survival mode where I really just didn't give a flying fuck anymore about anything other than getting through it.

I suppose that has stuck with me ever since. I no longer have any shame about my body. I don't care if people see me naked, especially not if I'm a deeply orgasmic, wild, out of control form of subspace where rationality has also completely shut down.

To me, this is what true submission is all about. It's total surrender to the Master's control and letting him see me in my rawest, most primeval state. It's a place of total surrender, total vulnerability, and also total release and trust. This to me is the main goal of every D/s interaction and, to me, the ideal scenario in a dynamic.

GreyAuthority​(dom male)​{Sammy} • Dec 21, 2024

Amazing response! This paragraph should be pinned somewhere and handed out on day one of D/s 101 ?

This level of submission takes time to achieve, but is such a beautiful goal to strive for.

CottageGardenGal​(masochist female) • Dec 29, 2024

A plus

Heart of Persephone​(sub female)​{owned} • Jan 6, 2025

For me it’s like peeling back layers. I’ve foolishly in my youth shed the clothes so fast and then had to rapidly redress. Not truly understanding what I was doing. But over these past few years. I remain clothed to the majority (people who are close to you at different levels of friendship see parts others don’t) But there was he who taught me how to trust and let the layers shed off and fall to the floor. This one has seen so much and has held so much for me. Only he knows me for me and has truly seen me naked.

down right d​(dom male) • Jan 6, 2025

Trust. It comes from baring the soul, telling the truth, having faith in your significant other.
Beauty. It doesn't come from the exterior. That's just the wrapping. It to, comes from the soul.
Faith. Comes from knowing each other and having the deep trust.
Comfort. Knowing that warm, inner feeling will not just go away but will be long lasting.
To get to know these, to be allowed into someone's inner soul, only then are the outer layers peeled away. The walls have been removed. The consent is given.

Then you have EARNED the privilege of becoming her partner, her lover, her mate.

Glitterkitt​(sub female) • Mar 28, 2025

I have mixed feelings about being naked. At the beginning of my journey I was starting to love my body again after neglecting for so long. I got baked often at dungeons during scenes. It was a rush and felt freeing so I thought. I slowly started to become ashamed because of what others said who were close to me. That kind of set me back. I still love be naked when it’s just my partner and I alone but not in a public place like a dungeon.

Steellover​(sub male) • Mar 30, 2025

What Blondie said about being in your dominants control, about baring your body and soul- total surrender and trust, well, that is what I have been chasing all my life- that kind of connection.