Do men really like women?

Re: Do men really like women?

Orgazmo​(dom male) • Apr 24, 2025

Sounds like the kind of confused little boys who follow Andrew Tate and Joe Rogan abed call themselves "the real men" but are really scared confused incels.

intenseoldman​(dom male) • Apr 25, 2025

OP, I can see why you say you find it true that heterosexual men are attracted to women but don't like them as people.
The patriarchy still thrives. Many women, if not most, have been sexually assaulted by men who know they will never report them because the structure of society still allows men that kind of power. Just look at the Supreme Court where Clarence Thomas was publicly accused of sexual harassment and Bret Kavanaugh was accused of rape. Look at President Trump who has been accused by 18 women of sexual assault or harassment and brags about the pussies he's grabbed. When men choose such leaders as these, why would a woman think men like her?
A woman lives in real fear of sexual assault and harassment every day of her life, and most likely she has been sexually harassed and/or sexually assaulted by a man who knows he will never face any consequences.
Why do women live in a world that's not safe for them? That would take a lot of time to study the psychological, sociological and biological factors that form our identities and shape our perceptions.
Just speaking for myself, I grew up with my two sisters and my mom. I actually prefer women for company. I think I understand and trust women more than men.
It doesn't mean I get along with every woman in the world, but that's more about personality than gender. There's billions of people in the world. You're not going to get along with everyone.
Appreciate your question OP. It ought to be asked more often.

IowaDom​(dom male) • Apr 25, 2025

To me - it's a question of 2 points - motive and maturity

Some men really don't care what they think about the person they are having sex with, they just want somewhere to stick it. To that end, they will pretend and play games no end. I think you will find this much more prevalent in younger men than older men, as older men tend to be thinking more about finding a partner to walk this world with, and not just an hour of fun, regardless of the damage path left behind.

LatexHer​(dom male) • Apr 25, 2025

I, for one, really love women for who they are, what they want, and what they can do. In plain language, women are great! I have been married and divorced 3 times in this life. Married my high school sweetheart, who gave me two great kids. That marriage ended when one of our children passed away. The trauma was too much for her, and we drifted apart. My second wife was a great girl, loved to be tied, bound, and played with. The problem was that I caught her playing with my former partner! Her indiscretion ended our 10-year relationship. Move 4 yrs forward and I fell in love with another woman who also enjoyed D/s, and B&d play. We traveled all over the USA, meeting friends and attending conventions and shows. I was 20 years her senior, and after 20 years of marriage, we mutually decided to split up. Our grown children from our previous marriages became burdensome. Today, I am retired, single, have my own home, with no one holding me back. Sexually, I enjoyed the Dance I shared with all three, and remain friends with two. I just returned home to Tennessee from Europe, where my newest GF and I enjoyed a wonderful trip and exploration. Life Happens, sometimes we fall into a ring of fire, are seared by its flames, and come out wiser, stronger, and better by each chapter we write! Do I love women - Damn right I do!

lunamuse​(sub female) • Apr 26, 2025

OP I’m right there with you. I feel like I’ve never met a man my age who likes women at all.
I found one that SEEMED to. But the more life got hard, the more resentment seeped out of his pores. The more his stress turned into hatred for me.
For every job difficulty - it became “women have never had to work for anything, you wouldn’t understand!” (I work full time)
For every family difficulty it became - “why can’t you just be a mom and a wife like all the other women in the world! Why do I have to do everything?!” (Again, I work full time, have three children, and am the only point of contact for both extended families)
For every household repair/project - “this is why women will never be equal! You can barely do anything!” (I’m so sorry you did not end up with a buff man ??? Go get one, homeboy??)
And Jesus fucking Christ for every new tiktok of a woman who is semi pretty and knows how to talk a man into believing he is the almighty creation meant to be served it’s “see! This woman knows how to treat a man and obviously gets ready for the day and looks great! She even has kids and is in shape!” (I’m not even marginally unattractive??)


So no. After watching my best friend turn out to be a woman - hater. I don’t believe men like women at all.

Kelpi • Apr 28, 2025

OK just my 2 cents. It's not that I don't like women I have never been able to understand them. Women tells me one thing then hates it when I do what she likes. I had one gf break up with me because I quit my job (after they called me into work on the third day of my hospital stay).I wonder why I was wrote up after I said no? Then my ex kicked me out after we moved to another place. Seems she did not like me notr letting her kids walk all over me.

Yea when I do what I am asked they get mad but when I do what I want they really get pissed. I retired last yr (62). In the past 6 months I have payed off all my depts. I saved up a little stash for my granddaughter. Now I sit around thinking I may go back to work or I may start up something just to have something to do. My point is I now have moree money and time to do anything I want. I don't understand women but I have found out what I can do with out them

Fetishes​(dom femme) • Apr 28, 2025

Absolutely.
Real men deeply appreciate women — not just for beauty or sex, but for the connection, energy, and emotions they bring into our lives. It’s not about objectifying, it’s about valuing women as full human beings, with desires, power, softness, and strength.
For many of us, a woman’s mind, spirit, and authenticity are just as irresistible as her body.

I think when you meet someone who truly sees you and respects you, you’ll never doubt it again.

TopekaDom​(dom male) • Apr 28, 2025

When people read my wr writings, they often ask how I managed to write women character so well.


The answer is I treat the women characters like people instead of a gender.

We all have likes, dislikes, want, needs, and the like. Gender, by and large, is largely unimportant.

Most men are incapable of seeing the world from another point of view, regardless of gender. The fact that another person may have a twat instead of a penis scares the hell out of them because they don't know how to see it in that view.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) • Apr 28, 2025

Warning: Taking anything from TikTok as valid is a slippery ice-covered slope. Never have I heard anyone reference TikTok as a valid source of education or information.

My personal response: I cannot nor will I try to speak for other "men". I would say any man or woman who attempts to speak for or about "anyone" in a group or large collection will only convey their own misgivings and opinions based entirely upon their experiences. So many of the responses above sound a good deal like virtue signaling if men are talking about other men. Are experiences valid? Yes. Are they all encompassing? No.

I, for my part, enjoy and respect people. Period. How I treat them evolves. As I get to know you, I enjoy you or don't based upon you and how we interact. And as a man I absolutely like and enjoy being around women. No sex necessary. I'd guess that more than 99.9% of the women I've known and liked weren't even a mild flirtation and I do enjoy a good flirt.

Dear God, women make the world a much better place to me for many reasons. And most of my good friends who are men feel the same way that I do. But not all I'm guessing.

Some men (and women) change their opinions on the opposite sex based upon their personal experiences. Some go from absolutely loving the possibilities of the opposite sex to outright hating the thoughts of them based upon many factors. We've all been through the ringer with our relationships. How we look upon the past often reflects upon the future.

How I am received and perceived also is impacted by who I wind up associating with. If you find that you're surrounded by men who don't actually like you (or women), change who and where you chose to hang out and meet. Because the men I associate with regard women in the highest.

If you're asking whether men like women, ask the same question regarding women: do they like men? My answer is yes, they do. But I'm certain you'll get the same results - a bunch of individuals who may have learned from bad experiences.

So . . . long winded response. Yes men do like women. At least I believe most straight men who are attracted to women do like women. But I'm guessing not all.

Knightsundere​(sub male) • Apr 28, 2025

Flaws of generalization aside, I'd honestly say no, they don't. The mindset of masculinity vs. femininity is the most obvious example of it to me. All masculine traits are seen as either helpful or necessary, whereas feminine traits are seen as weak, submissive, or emotional. There's a very strong sense of lingering disgust for the qualities of a woman unless the individual is attractive - a feminine man is just considered a complete negative/lesser male.

If you ask me, the general understanding of gender traits is completely counterproductive in society unless you're dealing with someone that's extremely good-faith and only takes the positive traits. Litmus test for me is asking someone to name a positive feminine quality, getting the response, and then asking them if they would want to immediately apply an improvement of that trait to themselves. You'll catch a lot of people out saying that they think things like "in-tune with their emotions", "sensitivity", and "vanity" are fine and dandy for eye candy but are otherwise not desirable.