Amdis
sub femme

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Illinois, United States

Age

Relationship status

Single

About me

*She/They*

2/27/25 Update

The Nitty Gritty
Id like to think of myself as a fairly well rounded individual, but, I'm a little bizarre, a bit hyper and a smart-assed masochist (or a tad bratty at times, if that's easier to digest).
I'm extremely friendly and approachable as long as you aren't a reprehensible excuse for a human being; pretty straightforward.
Found a lot of likes so far and definitely things I'm curious to try; currently, I'm open minded to most things- you never know if you're into something unless you try it.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask but do not waste my time with nonsense. Make it stand out or at least interesting enough for me to pay attention. Most of the messages I get on here are ridiculous; nothing personal, just give me something decent to work with

Please keep in mind: I'm not here for casual encounters, sex, threesomes, or to be someone's "unicorn". If this is something you're wanting to approach me about, please don't.

Vanilla-y Speaking/IRL:
just a big ol' nerd.
I love gaming, reading, have a penchant for crafty things, languages, and enjoy being a musician (though not a professional one).
Default is playful goofball mode, definitely have a great sense of humour.

BDSM and me

Trust, Honesty and Respect:
Please do not disregard the impact of these three within any dynamic, vanilla and BDSM alike. Respect is paramount, in life and particularly in this lifestyle. You earn it then cultivate it, continually building upon the crucial foundation. Trust is a key element that cannot be left out of any dynamic or relationship. Honesty is an absolute must, regardless of which side of the slash you fall on. Without these things, we lack the very foundation of a healthy dynamic.

What I like: The Primaries
Spanking (bare hands, implements, etc)
Flogging
Caning
Bondage and restraints (ropes, chains, cuffs etc)
Ball gags
Remote control toys
Ben wa balls
Leashes/leads and collars
Violet Wand/electro play
Nipple clamps
Biting/scratching
Wax play
<3 Hair Pulling!!<3

Tearing off clothing (on the receiving end)
Breath play (nothing too extreme)
CNC
Suspension

and the list goes ever onward...
Wanna Try:
Sensory deprivation
knife play
Orgasm control/denial (boy, Im gonna fail at that..)
TPE

Bdsm Test: The Rule of Averages- 2/27/25 update.
This is as accurate as it's going to get, for now.

*Edit* This test is just for fun and should not be relied upon for anything more than general knowledge and entertainment value
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Masochist

100% Rope Bunny

98% Submissive
86% Experimentalist
77% Brat

75% Primal/Prey

64% Non-monogamist

63% Slave
57% Little

53% Voyeur

52% Degradee
50% Pet
40% Ageplayer

32% Exhibitionist
29% Vanilla

0% Switch

Honestly, I know myself well enough to understand this changes fairly often, based on my current "mood". Sometimes "Submissive" is at the top, almost all the time "Rope Bunny". I suppose I'm simply adaptable.

Limits

Scat, urine, kids, animals, all the normal "don't go there" things

No branding, scarification, permanent markings; not into humiliation or degradation

Anal is a hard limit (sorry, not sorry)

What's new

2/27/25 Update:

Will be attending Kinky Kollege to help run a booth for the group I co-lead.

Working on actively being more involved in my local LGBTQ+ community and finding some lovely women to connect with.

Member since

Nov 28, 2017

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