Amdis
sub gender fluid

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Illinois, United States

Age

Relationship status

In a polyamorous relationship

About me

*They/Them*

3/16/22 Update

The Nitty Gritty
Id like to think of myself as a fairly well rounded individual, but, I'm a little bizarre, a bit hyper and a smart-assed masochist (or a tad bratty at times, if that's easier to digest).
I'm extremely friendly and approachable as long as you aren't a reprehensible excuse for a human being; pretty straightforward.
Found a lot of likes so far and definitely things I'm curious to try; currently, I'm open minded to most things- you never know if you're into something unless you try it.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask but do not waste my time with nonsense. Make it stand out or at least interesting enough for me to pay attention. Most of the messages I get on here are ridiculous; nothing personal, just give me something decent to work with

Please keep in mind: I'm not here for casual encounters, sex, threesomes, or to be someone's "unicorn". If this is something you're wanting to approach me about, please don't.

Vanilla-y Speaking/IRL:
just a big ol' nerd.
I love gaming, reading, have a penchant for crafty things, languages, and enjoy being a musician (though not a professional one).
Default is playful goofball mode, definitely have a great sense of humour.

BDSM and me

Trust, Honesty and Respect:
Please do not disregard the impact of these three within any dynamic, vanilla and BDSM alike. Respect is paramount, in life and particularly in this lifestyle. You earn it then cultivate it, continually building upon the crucial foundation. Trust is a key element that cannot be left out of any dynamic or relationship. Honesty is an absolute must, regardless of which side of the slash you fall on. Without these things, we lack the very foundation of a healthy dynamic.

What I like: The Primaries
Spanking (bare hands, implements, etc)
Flogging
Caning
Bondage and restraints (ropes, chains, cuffs etc)
Leashes/leads and collars
Violet Wand/electro play
Nipple clamps
Biting/scratching
Wax play
<3 Hair Pulling!!<3

Tearing off clothing (on the receiving end)
Light breath play (nothing extreme)
CNC

and the list goes ever onward...
Wanna Try:
Sensory deprivation
knife play
Orgasm control/denial (boy, Im gonna fail at that..)
Suspension
TPE

Bdsm Test: The Rule of Averages- 3/16/22 update
This is as accurate as it's going to get, for now.

*Edit* This test is just for funsies and should not be relied upon for anything more than general knowledge and entertainment value
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

98% Rope bunny

96% Submissive

94% Masochist

79% Brat

76% Experimentalist

71% Pet

71% Slave

68% Voyeur

64% Non-monogamist

58% Primal (Prey)

46% Ageplayer

24% Vanilla

23% Boy/Girl

22% Degradee

3% Exhibitionist

0% Switch

Honestly, I know myself well enough to understand this changes fairly often, based on my current "mood". Sometimes "Submissive" is at the top, almost all the time "Rope Bunny". I suppose I'm simply adaptable.

Limits

Scat, urine, kids, animals, all the normal "don't go there" things

No branding, scarification, permanent markings; not into humiliation or degradation

Anal is a hard limit (sorry, not sorry)

What's new

3/16/22 Update
Became co-leader of one of my local bdsm groups and run a discord for our members

Engaging a lot more socially and going to events

Picked up a few play partners and having an *amazing* time

Update date

Sep 7, 2023

Member since

Nov 28, 2017

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