Jordi96(switch male){Searching}

Hello is anyone out there?

HI, my name is Jordi, i have been on this site trying to make new friends that are into this this lifestyle. My problem is that I am not even getting a "hello" back. I feel that it's rude when someone takes the time to send a message of "hello" and can't even get a hello back. It becomes hurtful & makes me feel like giving up! But I am not ready to give up yet. To the few that answered even if it was not the answer is wanted "Thank you" Dose anyone have any suggestions for me?

Difference between The Cage and Fetlife

5 years ago. June 27, 2019 at 8:07 PM

There are a few things what i like more about The Cage then FL.

Examples

1.The people here respond faster because and you dont have to have a 100 of Friends in your friendlist .

2. Its smaller that is for me a big + in a way.

3. When you blog something everyone sees it in the begin page.

4. There arent million blogs or pics uploaded in ten minute (if you get what i mean)

5. There is a chat room.

And there are some more.

But there is also a downside for me on the Cage.

There arent much people from my area on here so there arent and events for me through the Cage.

Hopefully one day this will change.

Kisses and greetings jordi.

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - I use both, love both.

5 years ago

Jordi96(switch male){Searching} - It both has his pro's and cons

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - Yes they do. I love them for different reasons. Hope your experience here is good.

5 years ago

Jordi96(switch male){Searching} - Yes it is i feel more welcome here and opener

5 years ago

HGB(sub female){Scottish M} - Fet is great for my local community events. Some of my writing goes on both. Non of my F friends are on here. Which is fine for me.

5 years ago

Madd Hatter(dom male) - I hated fet life too quiet, I messaged countless people reached out to more than that. Nothing. Here I've been replied to, answered, it's been nice, even picked up a thing or two so there's no contest the cage.

5 years ago

Jordi96(switch male){Searching} - Exactly what i mean

5 years ago

TheAnt(dom male) - I think Fet is for "hit it and quit it" dating. I don't care for one nighter "meet and beats" with training never being a part of it. A good Dom ( a real Dom) helps his sub grow and simply meeting random people for sex is pretty much Tinder for BDSM and other than the climax and a memory, nothing can come out of it lasting.

5 years ago

Angel Wings(sub female) - Cage is my only so have. I nothing to compare it too..People are great. I love the blogs and chat.

5 years ago

Justme26 - On the cage I have not found anyone who is in the UK (or interested in long distance) so I really just use it to write blogs and collect information. In some ways I hate fet life, people on it are rude and aggressive. I have had two very aggressive encounters. Now I keep a very low profile. where as on the Cage every one is really nice and even when I think I might have offended someone they are all ways very nice about it. Also I have learnt things on the Cage that I would never have learnt on Fet.

I do occasionally meat people of Fet (but so far it has not gone anywhere) and there is some useful info and some things are quite funny.

I have been advised that the Cage will grow in the UK, and in the mean time I quite like writing blogs.

5 years ago

Bunnie - Lol I feel your pain about there not being people on here from your area... for a long time I was the only Australian!

That is where Fet is good... for meeting locals and finding local events.

5 years ago

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Jordi96​(switch male){Searching}

Hello is anyone out there?

Difference between The Cage and Fetlife

Jordi96(switch male){Searching}