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1 year ago. March 21, 2023 at 1:31 AM

In the vanilla world I’ve run across men who are ok with the idea of prostrate play and some who are solely against it. Some it’s been an association of it not being manly or in fact a homosexual act. As if even considering it takes something away from their “manhood”.

To me I view it as something I would do to someone, if they wanted/liked it and consented to it, to pleasure them. I love to please the person I’m with. So I don’t view that person as being in a “submissive” position if he was the recipient. In my eyes I would be serving him in this way. Pleasuring and pleasing him, which pleases me, under his consent (or order). He is still in control. 

I’m curious to see how Dom’s feel about it? And do some doms view it as being put in a more submissive position?

*Edit-if you are not comfortable answering on this blog and want to share your opinion in a message, I would love to hear it. 

K y i v - Taking the fifth, Gianna.
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Where’s the dislike button??? 😔
1 year ago
GregW​(dom male) - I'm curious if the response is age dependent. Although I am not opposed to it - it does feel really good - I was raised in the toxic masculinity of the 70s, and I could see how older men would view it as more taboo than younger men.
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - I appreciate your response
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Younger men feel the same
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Hehehe ..I was talking about prostate milking to man I met I the vanilla world (he realized that he was a submissive male...just my luck, right? 🙄) And I mentioned that he has to get a prostate massage every year and he realized that from there on...he was never going to be able to think of his doctor in just the same way ever again. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
1 year ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - No
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - How do you feel about fucking a woman anally?
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - So are you saying it’s a no for you or are you answering my question as
To whether you think it puts the dom in a more submissive position?
1 year ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - I can answer that. Him and butts don't mix. He was saying no to being penetrated, period.
1 year ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - I am not into anal, or anything up any ones anus, mine included.
1 year ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male) - Unless it is a fecal transplant to help someone with a gut bacterial imbalance, gross sounding, but the consequences could be worse than the short term indignity.
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Everyone has likes/dislikes that no one should judge. If you're not into anal, you're not into anal. My curiosity is if doms look at prostate play as less manly/domly because of the type of play and do some think of it as a submissive act?
1 year ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - Myself, I completely enjoy it when I'm in a mood for it. Femdoms command their boytoys to fuck them so what's the difference if a male Dom/Master tells his s type to peg, milk or otherwise enjoy the pleasures that cum from the backdoor play?
It heightens the organism for me.
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Thank you for your input, and I agree.
1 year ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - *orgasm* damn autocorrect
1 year ago
Bunnie - Awww I was wondering what this “organism” was you were speaking of :b
1 year ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - 😵😂😂
1 year ago
Love Sir​(dom male) - My $0.02: its not like there's some "gayometer" measuring just how gay (or submissive) particular acts are. I like having certain things done to me that I'm sure gay men enjoy as well (just, performed by women). Besides, so what? If I like doing something, I'll do it (as long as my partner goes along). I don't care how it affects my image or what it says about my sexuality or my "dominance." Typecasting for a moment but there's a great many things gay men seem to enjoy that I do as well (vanilla), and no doubt vice versa. Or as stated in Victor, Victoria: "Contrary to the popular conception of how a man acts, there are different men who act in different ways." Ultimately the one indicator of whether someone is a "real man" or a "real dom, " real men and real doms don't give a shit whether anyone thinks they are or not.
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - Thank you for sharing your 2 cents 😁
1 year ago
Love Sir​(dom male) - Maybe it was more like 3 cents! 😃
1 year ago
GiannaRay​(sub female) - I’m I but I don’t give change lol
1 year ago

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