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5 years ago. September 12, 2019 at 5:44 PM

Where does a daddy go when He's blue when They need comforting cuz no matter what we also live on planet Earth and we all still have down time we have all listened and heard and no little ones who are down I need to talk and have being having bad days and everybody's going to help now but what about the Daddies/Mommies who need some comfort someone to help lift there spirits I just figured I would ask to see if anybody has an answer

Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Well honestly I as a little go to places that make my little happy🤗 you should honestly take the time to sit down and make up a go to list , as well as a self care kit and a booster pack for when you feel this way. Anything nature/outdoors helps me, animals as well. So I would ask what inherently makes you smile and just forget about things for a while? However if you’re referring to being alone/wanting to socialize the same rule applies whereby you need to go to places where you find engaging people and personalities that draw you out. Sorry to point it out so bluntly but no one can tell YOU where to go to make yourself feel better, that’s on you dear daddy~o🤗☺️ If you don’t yet have that answer might I suggest a broad list with various prospects and then work through them and eliminate the ones that don’t work for you?
5 years ago
PapaWolf DaddyDom​(dom male) - What makes me happy is interacting was Littles learning caring about others problems finding out their ideas of what is helps him I'm not setting anyone set rule but if I was to hear a bunch of things from bunch of different people I could pick up the best qualities from what helps them and I could possibly use it to help me that's all I was asking there's so many places for Littles to go and submissive to go when they're having these problems why is there not a place for dominance tickle when they're down I think it's garbage that it is all right for the submissive and the littles and the slaves to have a place to go everybody douds on them and tries to help but when the dominant has issues they're expected the model through it by themselves will sometimes in this world it doesn't work that way and that's all I'm asking and if there isn't a place Jesus us dominance you get together and make a place just for the situation sometimes it's self- reflection and sometimes it's just communication but there should still be a place for dominants when they need help just like there's a place for submissive but that is my opinion I'm a little testy today and hurt please don't take anything offensively I do appreciate you for your help and don't think I don't because everything helps right in different ways
5 years ago
HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - Everybody needs somebody sometimes. Hugs hope you find someone to talk to.
5 years ago
PapaWolf DaddyDom​(dom male) - Hugs help thank you
5 years ago
Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - I think the best option would be to

1) take a class/course for doms and t would most likely cover a lot of this.
2) find a mentor who can help youth in these times
3) if there’s no such place MAKE YOUR OWN!!
5 years ago
PapaWolf DaddyDom​(dom male) - It's not like I'm just knew I just have never found anything and it's kind of unfair that it's one side and not both why we as dominance don't have Helping Hands like the submissives do submissive reach out all the time dominance never do I don't understand why we as the ones that who are supposed to be in charge have bad days as well but why we don't have a place to ask for help to get another's opinion we get frowned on then told to go take training and get mentors what happens after everything that we've trained in adamant or before with if they're still questions and what happens if you don't talk to your Mentor anymore cuz they went another way or they passed away my mentor had 50 years in BDSM he was a wonderful man we took different paths I wished it would not have gone that way but we are only human and sometimes humans take different paths there's should be no reason that somebody other than a submissive should be able to reach out for help we're human we're not perfect and like I said before I do appreciate your opinions in your options and other than the mentor thing I will look into researching other Avenues and like I said before I do appreciate what you said and your options I just wanted to clarify it should never be just one sided it should always be both even if you're in charge you should always have somebody else's opinion from time to time just to make the best choice
5 years ago
Satindragon{Not Lookin} - This is a community of like minded kinksters. We all blog here, talk here, and share here. It doesn’t matter what side of the coin you happen to be on. There is usually someone here to communicate with. Ask questions in the forums or talk through your blogs. It always helps to have various opinions on any issue.
5 years ago
PapaWolf DaddyDom​(dom male) - And you are very right and I thank you for your help
5 years ago

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