Good morning, loyal reader! How are you today? Everything here is going well. My last week or so has been pretty amazing, so I’m in a very good place. I hope you’re doing just as well!
Todays post is going to be fun! Well, I think? This is the promised “on topic” post that I’ve hinted at over the last couple of days. So buckle up, dear reader. Let’s have some fun!
***DISCLAIMER*** Some of the next couple topics will deal with sensitive and potentially dangerous activity. If you wish to engage in these, please be safe and make sure you are doing it in the safest and best possible way to avoid hurting someone else!
First Topic!
Through all of my various research and questions into the BDSM life, I have come across a couple things that interest me. A couple things stand out as “must try” but I don’t know that I ever will, because they are getting into the heavier and more dangerous side of things.
The first thing is breath play. There is something so... delicious about the concept. Yes, it is very dangerous. And no, one should not do something like this by yourself. But if you’re careful and have a trusted partner, then it seems like a very interesting way to play.
Obviously the risk and the danger will make it more intense, but the general power involved is also very enticing. Knowing that you can completely restrict the airflow and the person could possibly black out... it’s exciting. And scary.
Obviously a little light choking is getting more and more common in the world, and I feel like that is the extent of where I will ever venture into this specific kink, but the appeal is there. How about you, dear reader? Have you ever tried breath play? Was it something you enjoyed? Is it too... heavy for you?
If you have any stories or insights on this one, dear reader, let me know! The next topic is going to bring us a bit deeper into the danger zone, so here we go!
New Topic!!
This one... This topic may get a bit dicey. Umm... pun intended? I want to talk about knife play for a minute.
This has been one of my favorite things to learn about. I have always loved knives and the idea that they can be used sexually was quite a surprise.
The feel of the cool steel, the sharp tip lightly grazing soft skin, the risk that the blade and slip... There are so many interesting facets to this. Clearly it’s very dangerous. Not something that any sane person would have originally thought of. And one should not engage in this specific kink unless they are 100% sure they are careful and have taken all possible precautions. Disclaimers are fun!
But the thought of a Domme standing over me with a long curved blade teasing me, taunting me with it, pressing the dull edge against the soft pale skin of my body... Maybe taking the tip of the blade and pressing it into me, drawing a small bead of crimson... it gives me chills.
I know it’s a dangerous game. And it is one I will never get to play. I don’t know that I trust anyone enough to hold the knife, and I know I don’t trust myself to do it to another. I’d be so scared! But the fantasy behind it, that is certainly appealing to me.
How do you feel about knife play, dear reader? Is it something you have considered? Do you actively participate? Is it a hard limit? Let me know!
New Topic!!!
The reason I have mentioned those kinks specifically is because I am working on trying to find my limits. I have the common ones. Bodily waste, animals, children, illegal stuff, hardcore degradation and humiliation... the basics. But I feel like that is too broad. So I have been looking at the more unconventional things in the lifestyle and those struck me as interesting.
Some people have bad histories with choking or with knives or with being tied up or with being spanked or being humiliated... Everyone has limits. And I don’t know mine. I’m sure they are out there. And I have no doubt I will uncover them as I experience this journey. All it takes is the right person to broaden your horizons.
New Topic!!!!
Speaking of that right person, they say that the right person can draw things out of you that you didn’t know you were capable of, things you didn’t think were possible. I am slowly working through some of this.
The girl I have been talking to recently has been opening my mind and heart more than I would have expected in a bit of a dominant manner. Loyal readers will know that has been something I have been struggling coming to terms with for a while. I doubt my abilities and my capacity to fill that role. And yet, a few people have said I should try it.
Out of them, only one is currently on this site, and I know she reads my blogs. So to that wonderful woman who is gently guiding me into a direction that I never expected to go to, thank you! Your help and support have been amazing! And the confidence you have in me and the willingness to help me learn is just so great.
I know I could have done that in a private message. And I have texted her and said that to her directly. But I felt an informal shoutout was in order.
Well, dear reader, I think I have blown my load for you this morning. Sexy, right? I know this post may not have been as funny or goofy as my typical post, but it’s just some stuff I needed to type out and I figured, why not turn it into something that will bore people!
You’re welcome!
