So it's funny to me to see so many doms here needing discretion and only online because of their significant other at home. If you are one of these you may want analyze yourself before you judge me and my baggage.
It's still cheating! Your never really going to leave your other for your sub your comfortable with the way things are. As a woman we want to believe we matter more so we will buy the im only there for my kids. It's been over for a long time but.... then it hits us your never really leaving.
I'm only venting because I've see some pretty messed up subs because a Dom who has a wife/gf decided to toy with her emotions. It's sad. Then Doms will pass judgment on let's say me because I have an ex who messed me up and makes it hard to trust people. Well let me say this hes my EX and I left him I didnt stay for the kids, I went out put my big girl pants on and am making it without him. So before you judge someone make sure your ducks are in a row.