Pheonix J(sub female)

Just me

My journey is a road I travel most of the time with friends by my side. Some days I walk alone, others I hold someone's hand. This is my journey on cage. If you really want to know about me go back 2 years ago to my first blog. Enjoy

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5 years ago. July 31, 2019 at 4:48 AM

It's funny we all have ways to hide who we are. Some catfish people some just lie others hide behind walls. Today I decided to take 2 of my walls down and not hide. I changed my status to who I really am (single and no collar) because this kept people at bay. It kept me from having to deal with all the catfish and liars but it also keeps me from finding or learning from others..

To the catfish and liars please just dont bother I dont have the time or the patience. As for a collar is one ever truly collared unless your Dom puts it on you?

So heres to bringing a few walls down.

Pheonix J(sub female) - I do have to agree. Its not easy to find strength but I think I'm taking the right steps.

5 years ago

Scooby Alpha(dom male){bratlitpri} - Actually, really clever to put the collar on and have the status to something other than single. You started to learn the culture without having to endure the other BS(A lot of insecure douchers posing as doms). I tip my hat to the lady with the plan.

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Thank you. The only issue I had is the true people I want to learn from stayed away. Now that I have watched a lot I feel more confidence and hope to someday have a true connection and collar.
I have been faulted for being a planner but hey it's what I know and structure is super important to me.

5 years ago

Give you Some Rope(dom male){not lookin} - I'm sorry for all the catfish and the chumbuckets . It's tough to be female on fetish websites.

Changing your status makes a difference, good & bad.
If your status still showed you as owned, I never would have read this post.

4 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Haha oh boy just me... that's what gets me in trouble.

5 years ago

Little moon(sub female){Not lookin} - Here here! Definitely something to celebrate even if it just with a happy dance😁🤗 if you need to plan and feel structure in your life to be comfortable and happy then its wonderful you can embrace that part of yourself, and the people who fault you for it are not looking out for your own best interest so they can fault themselves right out your life 😂🙂the right ones will stay and work with you together!

5 years ago

CrimsonPaw - Wonderful and brave first steps! Best of luck to you on your journey. 🙂

5 years ago

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Pheonix J​(sub female)

Just me

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Pheonix J(sub female)