Pheonix J(sub female)

Just me

My journey is a road I travel most of the time with friends by my side. Some days I walk alone, others I hold someone's hand. This is my journey on cage. If you really want to know about me go back 2 years ago to my first blog. Enjoy

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5 years ago. September 1, 2019 at 5:08 PM

I will never understand how when someone's life changes so drastically such as a break up all their social media changes. I never deleted anything I posted or said about my ex because that is my past and made me who I am today. It doesn't mean I still love him but reminds me of the road I have traveled. Even when I was heart broken and still in love I didnt change my past by deleting or removing pictures of him.

I am grateful for each lesson taught to me even in my darkest moments. My words back then remind me, my pictures remind me and most of all they show me how much I've grown.

I know I know it's hard to see which is why I dont do fb or ig often but now and then its nice to see where my life has changed even here my old blogs i wont ever take them down.

TreasureMe(sub female){Consumed} - We're so much alike. I still have pictures of my exes on my fb too. For the exact sake reasons.

5 years ago

TreasureMe(sub female){Consumed} - Exact same**

5 years ago

TheAnt(dom male) - I stripped everything mentioning an ex, deleted all pictures and even stripped my name from all her pictures on FB.
I do it for even blog posts here. If I block someone, I strip all comments made by me on the blog of the blocked person first, then delete all comments by them on my blog. It has taken me hours to do it before.
I guess it's my way of killing the past, but then again I am a Dom. I wonder if that makes a difference?

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - Or it could just be your way of coping. I like to see where I've been and it's a great reminder of how I got here

5 years ago

Daddy G(dom male) - I agree with Daddy Ant. An ex is an ex and should be left as that. Our memories are etched in our brains and will always be there for us. As far as keeping past post’s and photos or messages from an ex, if they involve my children such as photos that is one thing, but photos of an ex and myself are no longer kept. As I said before an ex is an ex for a reason.

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TreasureMe(sub female){Consumed} - G... all I know is if a new guy is threatened by photos from years ago on my fb, then he's not secure enough to be with me. And for personal reasons... a picture is worth a thousand words. I can look at a picture and appreciate the good times and also be way happy its over because it wasn't good for me and ive grown. If that's what I or J need to keep moving forward, what difference does it make? An ex is no less an ex just because I didn't delete a photo off social media. Just thre same as the experience that I had with them or the mental memories aren't less. To me... all I feel is that it boils down to insecurities, which leads right back to the first sentence on this comment. Just sayin'

5 years ago

Pheonix J(sub female) - We all heal and move on differently. My blogs are my journey so I keep them. I could see deleting comments on others but my blogs no

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Pheonix J​(sub female)

Just me

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Pheonix J(sub female)