Here we go another one for you. Lady lived in her happy home with her family. Never knowing what was really out there. Her family changed and she got put out. In this process she meets the carefree Tramp and the adventure begins.
Tramp lives his live for the moment, the thrill. He is happy living like this and doesnt think hes alone. That is till he meets lady. The two of them click and both of their worlds are flipped upside down.
Hmm sounds like some relationships here. You have people who live in their perfect little world not wanting to rock the boat. Then in strolls someone and shows them freedom. It goes both ways, the wild spirit sees how the security of a simple life can be.
You may think things are perfect in your world. You may be content living in your comfort zone but the reality is you become stagnat. If you cant continue to grow with your partner and learn more you stop existing.
I was talking to a friend today who was telling me as a Dom he has to be creative, change things up and never stop learning. This made me think. If our routines dont ever change we get lost, we get bored and we stop growing.
As a sub if I'm given a task I should be accountable and complete it. I think a Dom should hold me accountable. If I have some reason I cant do it I would explain and he would change the task to fit the situation. If you give me something to do I may not just do it you have to follow through with me.
Yes I get there will be people saying well that's not sub behavior. Actually it is. Our lives can get so hectic that even though we want to do the task it wont be 100% as it should be. I was tasked with writing something once and I couldnt do it. My head was in the wrong frame of mind and I vocalized this. The person giving me the task said something negative and made me not want to write at all. My point is listen dont be so stuck in what you believe to not change or adapt.
Every day is a learning experience take the good and bad and grow. Stop living in only what you think is correct and listen to others views. If your in a dynamic dont expect to be like someone elses be you as a couple. Grow as a team.
Do you want to be lady hiding in her picture perfect house? Do you want to be Tramp running around living a life of loneliness and denial? Or do you choose to come together and live the best life you can as a pair learning together?
So take those new found legs, get your shoes, wave to peter tell him "your welcome" then ask yourself where do you live in the past or are you willing to let your spaghetti moment slip away?
***names again do not depict gender or status
