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I'm on my path of discovery. I'm new but not new to the lifestyle. I'm just in search of where I fit in.
2 years ago. December 27, 2021 at 6:43 PM

😘 My pussy stronger than your dick 😘

 

Just read this interesting post on ghosting. I never really thought about the pain that went along with ghosting but I have never really ghosted either. 

 

However, I am quick to tell a Dom that I have no problem leaving. Until the guy I deal with now came along, I never put my heart out there to feel ghosting.  Feelings always led to me being clingy. I hate clinginess.

I actually leave when I feel clingy. I tell him straight... I feel clingy.. I'm done. 

I fail to understand why subs or Doms for that matter would open themselves up. 

Talk, have fun, laugh much... But no one should ever be allowed to touch your heart. We control no one, only ourselves. So there will always be the possibility of ghosting but we can control how much they can truly hurt us. 

The one thing I learned in this lifestyle is : the one who is allowed to touch my heart must be worthy. He has to bed thoroughly tested. Guess what? I should go through the same for him. Our worth must match. 

But always remember: my pussy is stronger than your dick. So if you ghosting me, I'm good. I know how to fuck myself to oblivion. Fuck myself so good that I need a cigarette and I don't even smoke. The other person should always be an accessory not a necessity. You are wanted not needed. 

simplegirl - I need a cigarette & don't even smoke 🤣😂 "priceless"! Xx
2 years ago
Jack in the box -
Clingons are people too ya know. 😏
2 years ago
TreasureMe​(sub female){Belonging} - This is gold 😍🔥
2 years ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - Agrees . One should also go with their gut feelings. If someone is pushing you to commit, submit and or be vulnerable with them too soon. THIS iS A RED FLAG!!!! You will know when your ready. Don't allow anyone to rush you into this after the first day/days of chatting.
2 years ago
SweetBrattyLittle​(sub female) - I so learned the hard way.
2 years ago
HEAVEN'S STARCHILD​(switch female) - I'm so.sorry that you went through this. Yes, it is painful, but remember YOU ARE STRONG, YOU ARE A SURVIVOR, YOU ARE THE VOICE FOR MANY ((HUGS))
2 years ago
HEAVEN'S STARCHILD​(switch female) - And let the church say AMEN!!!!!!
2 years ago

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