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I don’t trust anyone anymore. ?
2 months ago. February 26, 2024 at 5:16β€―AM

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I am feeling lonely.

I connect with a Dom on here for an evening or 2. It’s awesome to feel any connection that is at least partially genuine, even if just joking around. Those end because statistically that’s the likely outcome. 
Mostly it’s been guys who explain in their profile the importance of trust, time, friendship. We message and within 30 mins of knowing me is telling me specific tasks, responsibilities, etc. WTF? I’m submissive not incapable. These men don’t even know my name. Of course objectively I understand these are insecure, clueless fakes. I proceed to tell them. They get ego hurt. They block me.

I am asking why would a man want a woman to submit to him that he knows doesn’t know him?

I do believe that a good, strong, confident, intelligent, controlling, powerful man is meant to lead. I know I need to be led and trained and educated and treated as I actually am…less than.

I can’t submit to a man who can’t figure this out. They just want to control and beat and call it ok. 
I’m frustrated.

 

Max Heathen​(other male) - I do not know the mind or intentions of others but I've put this out in the past:
Possible reason for requesting quick submission:
See if you will - why waste time on one who won't? Counter: I'll submit this one time, but on these terms, you will not ask for anything sexual in any form and once I perform the required task. You will explain in detail why you wanted that and not ask for another proof until you prove to me that you're a Dom by preforming a task that a sub can ask of her dom. Then don't ask until you feel comfortable in doing so. πŸ˜‚
Inexperience - they simply don't know any better and figures that's how it works. Counter: If I do this what will you do in return that every sub requires? If aftercare isn't the answer, you know what you're dealing with at which point you should ask how many actual dynamic subs they have been with.
Either way you get to have some fun, get to know them some or laugh your ass off when they flounder like a fish out of water. πŸ˜‚πŸ’₯
2 months ago
Jack in the box -
Well, depends which head is typing
(nice pics btw 😏)
2 months ago
Spanks hard​(dom male){Looking } - I would not expect my potential submissive or slave girl to submit to me within one or two messages nor call me Sir or Master the men who tried to make you submit to them are inssentive and do not understand what what the gift of submission truly means.
2 months ago
primal daddydom​(dom male) - If you give people a little more time where they can show themselves, it's not about give tasks or spanking, Your bad past experiences may be directly influencing your expectations for trusting people today...I was explaining to you how the things works, the The intention was not at any time to force you to follow any rules, everything that is said and explained and there is no reason to simply disappear, we should not do to others what we do not want others to do to us...have a wonderful day
2 months ago
Authenticly honest - As long as you praise yourself for knowing the depths of your submissive essentials you will finally find the right one for you. I'm sure you do know that your happiness starts with you for you.
2 months ago

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