The Gift In The Name Of Kink...
Many of you know me from way back when I first joined thecage. Some of you have only met me recently. Some know of my life, and some don't.
But what I am here to discuss with you today has more to do with what, and who I found, after joining in this beautiful community.
So after talking with an old friend. I was told that I was a strong minded woman.
(This was said as a complament.) Lol
I've come to realize that finding thecage and all of you on it has truly saved my life.
When first finding you all, I was in a loveless, lifeless, and horrid marriage. Litterally dying there stuck for over a decade.
After only three months on thecage and with you fine folk being there, supporting me, teaching me, and even kicking my ass at times. I finally leave this man, my lifeless marriage, and my death, who was calling me way too soon.
Finding support here, a home, good people, and a new outlook on life. I found myself, I found life again.
Hell, I am not certain I even realized what life was about until I found all of you.
With this site and this community.
I found that this place and the people in it are about lifting one another up.
Being good to oneself, achieving goals, truth, happiness, respect, honesty, caring, love, and so much more.
The list of everything good in this lifestyle could go on for ages. Far outweighs the evil that I have come to find in our vanilla life's.
I have also found that everything is not always what it seems. It's funny how I am saying this and seeing this more and more often.
Also, it's just as funny how it always seems to surprise me. But here I am, every day learning something knew.
Finding that we tend to always think that another in this lifestyle has got it made.
Fact is nobody does.
We all struggle, we all have hard times, and we all live in this cruel world. We all get sad, have family issues, are looking for someone who brightens our day, we put on a brave face, smile when hurting.
Not one of us has it made.
I look at other sister subs, and I see them coming on here, and I think damn this girl has got it together.
She's strong, intelligent, kind, caring, inspires others, and has that to die for body as well.
And I'm in awe, a bit jelly, and want more than anything for others to look at me in that same light.
But, behind the face, she paints.
She is a strong woman because she's been through hell and made to be strong.
Intelligent, because she put the work in to learn and use what was given to her.
Had she not been smart, she'd be dead now. She's caring, because she knows what it's like to be bullied or abused.
She inspires others, because she herself was never inspired or because she knows what it's like to be inspired.
People look up to her, because she puts the work in on herself, on being the best she can be.
And her to die for body, because she works her ass off to keep it that way. Half the time doesn't even have the time to eat properly.
Or she may be fighting something darker.
And yet we never see that or know it. All we see is what we either want to see, or what is being shown us.
And the same thing with all these men.
Do you really think that there lives are perfect?
Nope, he may be in a lifeless relationship, hasn't been touched, treated like shit, made to feel as if he is no good.
And we see this great guy and just assume he has it all together.
Lady's these men are just as vulnerable to our bullshit as we are to there's. They are going through the same hell we go through.
We See a great Dom, next thing we know is he's the one putting himself down. When we all know he wouldn't dare allow us to do such a thing.
Makes one wonder why.... 🤔
Hears the thing. We are all just temporary beings, living in a temporary world, with temporary lives, and temporary people.
We come looking for something that is raw, real, and gives us a feeling of wonder and empowerment.
And we find thecage...
We find our kink, our lifestyle, like-minded individuals who share in this wonderful sexual bliss we all need and crave.
But then as we dive deeper into what all this world has to offer, we find neverland, wonderland, we then sink.
We fall and fall and keep falling in this wonderous world.
And before we know it, we are forever trapped, changed, and looking through a looking glass from the other side.
Where people care again, they think outside the box, they lift one another up, they admire truth, honesty, they give respect.
The list is never-ending.
We find human beings again.
This life in the vanilla world, the hell in which we go through, is what makes all of us.
To be strong minded individuals.
The gift is finding a home, family, care, commitment, compassion, respect, trust, honesty, and the vast amounts of endless and countless people who all came together in the name of kink.
This is where we learn to grow mature and venture to new heights and other worlds full of wonderment.
Thank You
For Being Apart Of My World.
FlitterFly... :):):)
DawnRobin 🥰
