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Splashes of Sparkle

5 years ago. September 12, 2019 at 10:36 PM

Currently feeling very consumed....

Feeling swallowed up by the waves.

It has been a LONG week. A lot has happened in a short period of time. Not all bad, some very amazing moments, yet definitely left feeling overwhelmed. I relate to this song so very strongly...

 

And as I'm overwhelmed, I go back to this song. Its fun to sing and harmonize to! That is therapeutic to me. And the romantic side of me shines through. That fairy tale side perhaps.

??

Recently a Dom here on Cage told me one of the biggest mistakes he sees subs make is developing feelings for their Dom. That D/s isn't like regular relationships. And while on one hand I fully understand what he is saying, if I am not operating in a way that includes my feelings and emotions, D/s or not, then everyone involved misses out on part of what makes me sparkle. I operate with and from my heart. I feel deeply.

 I will end with this..how a heart can be so happy and so sad all at once, I don't believe I will ever know. Its ok to cry. Its ok to feel deeply.

Maybe one day I will understand...maybe...

*breathe Sparks, breathe"- 

"I could have missed the pain, but I'd have had to miss the dance...."

 

Brown Eyed Girl​(sub female)Verified Account - I disagree with that Dom. When you are with someone and they are a good person it is never wrong to have feelings for that person.
5 years ago
Little moon​(sub female)​{Not lookin}Verified Account - Sorry sparks twill get better in time?? i had the same feedback from a few doms and I’m not sure where the lines get blurred but so far it seems to me that what I want is more along the lines of a daddy dom, maybe that’s the difference? It took me a long time to realize that I was actually a little but the rush of joy and happiness I did when it finally hit me, is like nothing else I’ve come across when considering the submissive part of me or any other side. I still struggle greatly in which part of the spectrum I fall as I’ve yet to find a dom who makes me WANT to submit to him, which further makes me believe I’m more little than sub, but then again maybe I’ve just yet to meet the right dom? time will tell??
My point is no dom has the right to tell you you’re doing something wrong in a dynamic you’re looking for. Some doms would feel in the emotional connection and bond while others say it’s a waste or wrong or blah blah blah- if you WANT and NEED feelings and emotions to be part of YOUR dynamic don’t settle or compromise for less, it will ruin you in the end dove?? the right one will find you in time❤️
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - ?
5 years ago
Massdomguy​(dom male)​{Not lookin} - Sparkalina, it sounds to me like whoever this "so called" Dom is hasn't got a clue about how to have a true dynamic with any sub. Having and showing feelings and raw emotions are what creates the strong bond between a Dom and sub. This in turn allows for open and honest communication which is a must along with full trust in any dynamic. Keep your head up and always keep sparkling!! Wishing you all the best!!
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - ?
5 years ago
Jack in the box - ? ". . . Livin in a powder keg and given off sparks . . ?
Totally agree with Massdomguy
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Love the reference!!
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - And now THAT song is in my head
5 years ago
Jack in the box - Sorry? ?
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - No need to be sorry ? it's a good song too ??
5 years ago
Jack in the box - Ok good ??
5 years ago
Sensual City Girl​{ForeverHIS} - It seems that this dom doesn't want an emotional connection and is only interested in the physical side of things, in my opinion. I may not carry my heart on my sleeve and hold my heart very closely to my chest, but when I feel and love - it's hard and unconditional. I wouldn't have been able to give myself completely to my Daddy, if I didn't have a connection and hadn't given him my heart and soul along with my mind and body.

YOU be YOU!!! There is someone out there that will want you to make their life sparkle :)
5 years ago
SSG​{ENM-TLP} - Submission is more than the mind. It is also the heart. It would be impossible to have a "TRUE" sub experience without having feelings of some description for your Dom. Some are of respect, some love...and so on. I agree with Massdom. I just don't think this Dom understands the dynamics of a D/s relationship yet. Perhaps he has been role playing to this point and hasnt had a truely powerful and intimate D/s experience. Sparkle on sweet lady. Don't hold back that sweet heart of yours.
5 years ago
Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Thank you for your sweet words. The one thing that I have learned is that no matter what, I cannot withhold my heart. It's just not in me. It's not how I'm wired or how I function. And it's not for everybody
5 years ago
SSG​{ENM-TLP} - Same here sis! It's raw and wide open or it's nothing! :)
5 years ago

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