Splashes of Sparkle

Brown Eyed Girl​(sub female) - I disagree with that Dom. When you are with someone and they are a good person it is never wrong to have feelings for that person.

Little moon​(sub female){Not lookin} - Sorry sparks twill get better in time🌈🤗 i had the same feedback from a few doms and I’m not sure where the lines get blurred but so far it seems to me that what I want is more along the lines of a daddy dom, maybe that’s the difference? It took me a long time to realize that I was actually a little but the rush of joy and happiness I did when it finally hit me, is like nothing else I’ve come across when considering the submissive part of me or any other side. I still struggle greatly in which part of the spectrum I fall as I’ve yet to find a dom who makes me WANT to submit to him, which further makes me believe I’m more little than sub, but then again maybe I’ve just yet to meet the right dom😳 time will tell😂🤗
My point is no dom has the right to tell you you’re doing something wrong in a dynamic you’re looking for. Some doms would feel in the emotional connection and bond while others say it’s a waste or wrong or blah blah blah- if you WANT and NEED feelings and emotions to be part of YOUR dynamic don’t settle or compromise for less, it will ruin you in the end dove🌈🦋 the right one will find you in time❤️

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - 💖

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Oh my Sparkalina. There is so much of this post I relate to and love so much! I am crying so hard right now ( and yes, it is on to cry).

The first song you posted - I have never heard and it so spoke to me, very deeply. I love it! Tbe second... Wow what a great rendition, so beautiful! AND the third? Well that song is very dear and near to my heart. Thank you for sharing and posting those.

So, now unto the post itself. I felt both sad and happy reading this. That is what the heart and soul is all about. Being able to feel all of the emotions... At once! There's peace and unsettling with that. It's painful but soothing, it's beautiful and ugly all in one. And that my dear friend are the feelings you hold on to! Who ever that Dom is, clearly has no idea about feelings. If you were into 'just kink' you would go to a club and join in scenes where there is no 'feelings'. But I say, the D/s relationship is one of the most profound, deepest connection there can be. The love, the trust, the commitment, the opening up of oneself to give to another is powerful and unbelievable.

So, feel, FEEL IT ALL, go in with ALL your heart.. always. That's how you sparkle my friend, and on the dim days, know you have friends that will sit with you until the storm passes, the chaos turns calm and the darkness becomes light!

Being overwhelmed is hard, please breathe and know you always have a friend in me!

You are amazing ❤️❤️❤️

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - It simply is who I am to feel so deeply....i can't stop it. It's already hard enough to breathe right now as me, let alone if i was trying to be some put on made up pseudo-Sparkle version of me 😂😂
And yes, that last song 💖💗💖💗💖💗 it's so bittersweet. So ao precious...

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Oh and that first song, the original version is much faster.

Massdomguy​(dom male){Not lookin} - Sparkalina, it sounds to me like whoever this "so called" Dom is hasn't got a clue about how to have a true dynamic with any sub. Having and showing feelings and raw emotions are what creates the strong bond between a Dom and sub. This in turn allows for open and honest communication which is a must along with full trust in any dynamic. Keep your head up and always keep sparkling!! Wishing you all the best!!

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - 💖

Jack in the box - 🎶 ". . . Livin in a powder keg and given off sparks . . 🎶
Totally agree with Massdomguy

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Love the reference!!

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - And now THAT song is in my head

Jack in the box - Sorry? 🙄

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - No need to be sorry 💖 it's a good song too 😂😂

Jack in the box - Ok good 😏🖒

Sensual City Girl{ForeverHIS} - It seems that this dom doesn't want an emotional connection and is only interested in the physical side of things, in my opinion. I may not carry my heart on my sleeve and hold my heart very closely to my chest, but when I feel and love - it's hard and unconditional. I wouldn't have been able to give myself completely to my Daddy, if I didn't have a connection and hadn't given him my heart and soul along with my mind and body.

YOU be YOU!!! There is someone out there that will want you to make their life sparkle :)

SSG{ENM-TLP} - Submission is more than the mind. It is also the heart. It would be impossible to have a "TRUE" sub experience without having feelings of some description for your Dom. Some are of respect, some love...and so on. I agree with Massdom. I just don't think this Dom understands the dynamics of a D/s relationship yet. Perhaps he has been role playing to this point and hasnt had a truely powerful and intimate D/s experience. Sparkle on sweet lady. Don't hold back that sweet heart of yours.

Princess Sparkalina​(sub female) - Thank you for your sweet words. The one thing that I have learned is that no matter what, I cannot withhold my heart. It's just not in me. It's not how I'm wired or how I function. And it's not for everybody

SSG{ENM-TLP} - Same here sis! It's raw and wide open or it's nothing! :)