The Stone Shelter

SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female){N/a} - I know it's hard, NoC, but sometimes you have to let go. Some things aren't meant to be, doesn't mean either are bad, just isn't what the Universe intends for the two of you. Life will get better, it always does, somehow. Be well...*Henna hugs*

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - A humble opinion from a sub's POV. I've been in similar situation, where Dom wasn't communicating. It hurt, but I had to leave. He reached out 2 weeks after that, wanting to talk. I had just started feeling better. Hurt all over again. Had to block on Hangouts. Only reason I can send a message now is bc of my Dom. I feel safe now. With ex, I sang Sometimes love just ain't enough. Plus Allure's All Cried Out.
I know it hurts and that logically you don't need this advice, but consider letting her go completely. And not just "I am a friend". I will give benefit of the doubt that she doesn't realize how much it hurts when she contacts you then leaves. Maybe she needs a Dominate friend and sees you as that. Maybe she's oblivious to your obvious pain. Maybe there's another reason. But in this case, you need to care for yourself. Allowing continual pain is not deserved. From what I've seen, you are a good man deserving of care and love. You act as a gentleman with a dominate side and deserve a lady with a submissive side. I ask ahead of time for forgiveness on my next statements bc my inner b*tch will not be quiet.
This little girl (and I mean that as she is a fucking child, not a special little) is acting like a spoiled little bitch. She wants her cake and ice cream, but on her terms. She is so not fucking worthy of you. You are a very worthy gentleman and need someone better than this meanie (more rational me edited things a bit). I know she is close to you. I know you care deeply for her. I so respect you for your patience and devotion. But she's not worth it. She will continue to do this merry-go-round.
Mariah Carey has a song where she says "If you should return to me We truly were meant to be". If she truly wants you, for you, let her go and do not allow back unless she's willing to be only yours. You can still care for her, but privately. Don't allow her to continue hurting you.

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - I'm here for you if you want to vent. Hugs.

NoOneofConsequence​(dom male){Taken} - Thank you, ladies.

I actually am alright, meaning I'm not hurting. I'm just... flummoxed about WHY she is reaching out to me again after abandoning me for so long. What it is she wants. (And, no. What we had, she doesn't get without some serious behavioral changes and commitments as I mentioned... mmm... in the one about the rings, maybe?)

It's just weird that she would send some messages reminiscent of several months ago for part of the afternoon and then go silent when she knows I can see that she is online.

Ah, well...

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - I surely hope she's not playing games with you. Part of me wonders if her "better choice" dumped her. And if this individual is reading any of this I'm doing a lot to not just show my teeth. I've had enough intentional hurt in my life it's not acceptable behaviour. NoC you deserve someone who will appreciate you!!!!!!

NoOneofConsequence​(dom male){Taken} - Sadly, if that is what is happening, it wouldn't be the first time. Actually, I have been made aware that it has happened at least three other times before. And I don't know that there was someone else she was playing with this time. Although it did make me note when she was online right about her bedtime, but didn't so much as wish me a good night, much less ask me to join her as she once did. ***shrug***

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - Wish I had a crystal ball to look into. Or a magic wand to wave. I would use them for you.

NoOneofConsequence​(dom male){Taken} - Irony... it was doing my version of this that got me into this. **grin**

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - My apologies for assuming. Know better than that. Just sounded like you were more than upset. And yes was the ring post where you mentioned what she'd need to do. Again, apologies for reading into this. I'm not at my best today lol

NoOneofConsequence​(dom male){Taken} - Oh, don't apologize kitten135. Not at all. I was very touched by your response. (And I will neither confirm nor deny that I may have had a much needed chuckle at a couple of points towards the end there.) And it did help to have those thoughts that have been roaming in the back of my mind since Tuesday stated from elsewhere. **hug** Thank you.

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - Well I am glad to have helped voice thoughts you were having and that my b*tch side may or may not have caused a chuckle :) Have to say, that is one of the few times that has happened lol :) I wish you the best and know you deserve it **hugs** :)

SoaringFree​(sub female) - Everyone has already said all the supporting words. Right now, I'll offer you strong hugs and endless support.❤

NoOneofConsequence​(dom male){Taken} - Hugs and support are always welcome. Thank you, SoaringFree.