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4 years ago. January 26, 2020 at 12:38 PM

Well next weekend will be 2 months my lioness has had a migraine. Over these last 8 weeks we have been in the emergency room 4 times, countless trips to the doctors office,  meds out the ass with only minimal relief. Worst part is dealing with the incompetence from the doctor's office. Primary doctor sent us to a neurologist but he won't be available until March so we got to see a nurse practitioner who prescribed a injectable but didn't pay attention to the fact my lioness is allergic to latex which if she would have used it would have been a trip in an ambulance. Called to get something different and for 2 weeks she was on vacation, so we asked for a referral to another neurologist still can't get them to send it. On top of it they just got the referral for the MRI which was supposed to be done 2 weeks ago.  All the while my beautiful lioness has missed work and if this shit keeps up she might lose her job. I have been chewing ass trying to get some answers will no results so I got her an appointment with a new doctor now we get to start at ground zero. My lioness feels like she's being a burden on me, but that couldn't be farther from the truth, I just want the happy beautiful lioness I met last June. I will admit this shit has caused me stress but it's not her fault it's dealing with people who just don't seem to care one way or another if she feels better. Starting February 3rd we have an MRi on the 4th we see a new doctor with hope that they can find out what's causing her migraines. If you want a true test of your love for someone and to see if your dynamics can stand strong be there for them at their worst so at their best it will seem effortless.  To all of our family here we wish you the best in all aspects of life, stay strong because life sometimes can make you feel weak. Big hug from Lion and Hazel eyes. 

Pheonix J​(sub female) - Lion, I'm sure you all have thought of it but could it be the environment change. Different allergens different seasons her body may not be adjusting easily. Even the slightest change can trigger them for me.

Good lock and lots of prayers for you both
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - We discussed this and a whole slue of other things, had 2 ct scans, x ray of her neck, MRI is next at this point were at the mercy of the doctors. Thanks for your support. Big hug to you. 😊
4 years ago
Bunnie - “ If you want a true test of your love for someone and to see if your dynamics can stand strong be there for them at their worst so at their best it will seem effortless.”

Wise words. Wishing you both all the best. I hope things get sorted and she experiences some relief.
4 years ago
Satindragon{Not Lookin} - You know my thoughts and prayers are with you both.

❤️Dragon Hugs❤️
4 years ago
RopeBunnie​(sub female){Not Lookin} - Omg, they need to get something done! 🤬 does her migraine happen to be at the base of her skull where it meets her neck? I recently learned that if it manifests there, it's caused by high blood pressure (this is where my migraines usually manifest) have they checked to see if that's where they start? They put me on blood pressure medication and it's been helping with my migraines.... Have you reached out to the patient advocate? They're supposed to be there for the patients, so if you haven't, I'd do that, because it seems like they're not doing their best for her! Prayers things get figured out ASAP!
4 years ago
Neophyte​(sub female) - Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your lioness
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Sending you BOTH strength, your Hazel Eyes, healing wishes and prayers that this gets resolved. Much love to you both ❤️❤️❤️
4 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - I’ve suffered with migraines for basically my whole life so I know exactly how she feels and my heart goes out to you both! Until you’ve suffered one or watched someone suffer one no one really gets how bad they can be, especially doctors. Actually I think they’re the worst!

For me the doctors just shoved medications at me that had to progressively get stronger cause eventually they’d stop working. it wasn’t until I cut out certain foods from my diet my migraines started to decrease, but I only thought of that cause of my history of other food allergies.

I hope she gets the answers she needs and some relief!! I’m sending you both healing vibes! Xx
4 years ago
HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - Thoughts are always with the 2 of you.
Lion, you are a good man.
Hazel eyes, how would you feel/behave if rolls were reversed? Many of us want to be the one leaned on and never the lean on. But that is life. It's a give and take. Right now it just happens to be about you. Get well soon.
Hugs you both
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Thanks to all for your support and love. Lots of love back. ❤💖
4 years ago
ADIDAS - Chiming in a little late to the party but I too can relate exactly to Ms. Hazel Eyes dilemma. I went through the exact same thing a few years ago, called cluster migraines. Very little relief and you roll right into another one. I'm soooooooo soooooooo sorry for you my darling!!! I truly feel your misery!! I know! I too was shuffled around from Dr. To Dr before anyone did anything and by then I'd happily step in front of the next lumbering bus or garbage truck coming down the road just for relief! They gave me, ( I'm going to write the word the way it's pronounced) Suma-TRIP-tan And a zyrtec every single day, no matter what day of the year. There's no " allergy season " for me, just take it every day. The sumatriptan is for when I get a migraine, it stops it, and it really works! Every time!! Also I take (Tope- PEER-a- mate) Topiramate to prevent migraines. All this in tandem has greatly reduced my migraines to maybe 1-3 if that a month depending on the time of year.

I wish you both luck and good wishes as I know how trying it is to deal with this from either side of the slash. I wish the Drs God speed in helping you in your treatment. Please don't hesitate to contact me if I can be of service to you both.

Ms. A
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4 years ago

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