Master and the Sub

The words look simple but are they? Do you show people your true self or hide behind a false you. Can you be honest enough to tell people how you feel or do you hide your emotions? In this lifestyle or in the real world do you put on a fake persona to please someone? is it ok, probably not but why do you do it, the words exposed, vulnerable, naked, come to mind, why because we don't want other to see us as weak or give them power to hurt us, why because human nature drives us to control others with information. Remember the old saying information is power, applies to life, work, relationships and dom's and sub's. Husband who make's the money has power over his wife who doesn't have a job, boss has power over employee who needs to pay bills, Dom has power over sub because she is insecure, so why would we ever be true to ourselves and other's? Because we have something to gain. Now you ask what do I have to gain being my true self? First off peace of mind, knowing the person you're with is there with you because they want to be, second, trust if they want the real you then you can trust they have your best interest at heart, third they truly love you for who you truly are. Now I will share something funny here, got one of those spam e-mails that stated a guy had hacked my computer and put a program on it that saw I looked at porn and if I didn't pay him 900.00 dollars he would contact my friends and family from my contact's list and let them know what I had been looking at. So fucking funny I had to laugh, my family and friends know the true me and everyone knows I watch porn on occasion, so dude what else you got. lol My point is be yourself, if you surround yourself with people that truly know you then the information they have will not hurt you but support you in all things you do. My lioness had a friend with high connections, ran a background check on me as did my second ex-wife know what they found? Absolutely nothing because I am and always will be true to myself and other's who know me. Can you say that about yourself or the one's who say they love you or want to be your Dom or Sub, ask these questions when a potential new partner is knocking on your door, are showing the true you and are you seeing the true them. Honesty is a great hope until you catch someone in a lie, please get all and I mean all the information about someone's true self before ever falling for the outside persona. Hope everyone has a wonderful 4th of July weekend, I will be spending mine with the most beautiful woman in the world to me, along with my lovely parents and damn good food my lioness is making. Big Hug and my love to all.