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4 years ago. July 1, 2020 at 1:23 PM

Ok so something I have been trying to teach my beautiful lioness is be the better person. So what does that mean, it means just that be better than those who seek to piss you off, hurt you, make you come down to their level so they can gloat. My beautiful lioness doesn't like her sister in law, but on Mother's Day we called her to wish her a good day, something hazel was totally against. I told her this makes you the better person, did her sister in law return the favor, no but that is fine it shows everyone around that she is petty. When people act like asses and you respond then you drop to their level of pettiness, you give power to those who seek limelight. Never give in to those who are not worth your time, for they have self esteem issues and seek attention. My mother always taught me to take the high ground, be the person you want to be not what others expect of you, be proud of who you are and what you have done in this life. So I have always tried to live a life that I am proud to say I'm happy with who I am, for it is us who set's our own standards in both morals, values, and how we treat others. So ask yourself are you proud of the way you act, feel, love, treat others, especially in this lifestyle, are you being the better person or are you just like all the rest. Being a good person is hard, it take work to bite your tongue when you want to cuss and yell, it take's patience's when you want to fight, it takes a better person to give in sometimes and know when to walk away. It's easy to be bad, mean, and hateful, look at the people spewing shit in the world, look at yourself when you get mad and do bad things it's not hard to call people names, use violence, do hurt full things but it takes effort and work to think before you act, to be the better person. I always told my children being evil is easy, being good is hard, words to live by. So what kind of person do you want to be and be remember as?

Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - This is a hard one for me. I am an emotional person and wear my heart of my sleeve, when people hurt those I love, it's hard for me to be the bigger / better person. I know it is better to "kill with kindness" however it's a hard act to do. I would like to think I am that good / better person, but I am real and know my flaws and this is one of them.

Great post my friend. ❤️💞❤️
4 years ago
Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Nothing wrong with fighting for a cause you believe in, just don't let someone bait you into their own drama. I have been pulled into the bs before and refuse to sink to someone's childish antics for their pleasure. Big Hug my friend you are a one of kind.
4 years ago
Morley​(sub female){Max Sterne} - Awwww ❤️💞❤️💞
4 years ago
MstrJ​(dom male){~ENM~} - The thing is it's about recognizing our shortcomings and becoming aware of them. So we may take a moment the next time we are triggered, and in that opportunity can prove to ourselves the quality of our character.

Some days we will win. Some days we will fail. But it's the constant determination to do it better next time. To choose the better path with the next opportunity, and ensure we don't waste what is in front of us.

It's not always easy to determine when our next opportunity is though. We don't always see clearly when stuck in the muck and the mire. We can only live our lives and do our best. So long as you are satisfied with your actions at the end of the day, but if not take stock. Evaluate why and where you found failure in your life. Try to do better next time when a similar opportunity arises.

Thank you for the post Lion, something to consider and constantly work today's in everyday life.
4 years ago
Fallible Malleable - Wise and true words! Well said. I do my best to apply it to daily life and am working to instill it in my offspring. Got to do the whole lead by example bit that can REALLY be a challenge some days. Thanks for the post and reminder! Best to you and Hazel. Be well.
4 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - "know when to walk away." Yes. living this one right now is tough when someone feels they need to take every pot shot they can possibly manage and post vague public jabs at me. Yep, we all make mistakes. We all fall short, that does not give someone the right to publicly mock you fore the rest of your natural life either. Walking away from that and not engaging is *hard*. Thank you for the post <3
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Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Oh I know that all too well, my first ex wife tried really hard to get me pissed off so she would look good. Didn't work, our kids think she's the ass now because I never took the bait. Tell yourself I'm better than them, I'm the stronger person. It's hard when you want to fight but sometime's it's not worth the stress or the outcome. Big Hug my friend.
4 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - Thank you, I will remember it. ♡
4 years ago
HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - When I get really upset, mad I cry. People is it as weakness. I don't care what they think. Those who know me, know me. I shared my last speech video with a friend he knew immediately I hadn't been getting enough sleep. Sorry I squirreled. If I can't take the high road I take the fork in the road.
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Hazel Eyes​(sub female){Lion} - Being the better person is extremely difficult especially when always have to be on the defensive side, always having to explain the whys and defend it...Holding back from someone always belittling especially when they are wrong is not easy....As you know, I lash out to defend myself and will put a fight especially towards SIL....
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Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - Yes, but as I explained it makes you look like the bad guy, others see and you are the one who looks foolish.
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