When I was first looking for someplace to find that special person who could fulfill my needs inside and outside the bedroom. I searched in my hometown, didn't really find anything other than a female dominant who for the high price could make your fantasy come true.
My oldest son recommended Fet Life, I typed in the site via Google and viola here was what I thought I wanted. Until I noticed I must sign up, pay to enter just for the possiblity of finding that one special submissive.
Then like a magical omen the cage site popped up, I clicked, I looked before I joined, I joined. This site had everything, profiles to read, pictures to see, information to be read and absorbed, blogs to learn, laugh, and realize people just like you exist.
I created a profile, posted pictures, wrote my first blog, made new friends, had great conversations, even gave support to some that needed it. I felt like I finally belonged somewhere without feeling ashamed or guilty of what I wanted.
I met the most amazing woman here, we talked all the time, we met in person, we moved here here, got married. Can't imagine a more special and magical moment in my life.
Now fast forward a year and a half, things have changed or I was very naive, from what my Hazel said and a comment from a friend I always thought of Fet Life as being the craigslist of bdsm. Go there find a good fuck partner then go on your way after it gets old or boring.
I say this because of what i have seen on their site, what I have been told about their site, and just the same vibe craigslist or backpage had at one time. Also reminds me of plenty of fish, nice to browse but not to invest much.
The Cage I held above these sites, their site was welcoming, inviting, you could browse without commitment, once inside the place held many things. Go premium and the world was yours, so I thought.
Now it seems every Tom, Dick, and Harry, Tom has a hairy dick with an e-mail address can join, post his dick pics, and demand every submissive bow down and suck his hairy dick.
I'm beginning to think Fet life had it right, pay before you play to weed out the I'm just here to find a fuck buddy but we all know men will pay for pussy, hence why prostitution is the oldest working profession, long hours shit pay, and no benefits.
Please don't think I'm gullible, I've been on dating sites and their all filled with people wanting true love along with just need to fuck someone, I guess maybe each of these sites need to have separate sections one for looking for forever and looking for after you make me cum, then makes sure you lock the door on your way out kind of sections.
Sure would make it a little simpler, if you're feeling horny click here, after the shame and loneliness click here to find a more permanent way of dealing with your emotions. Life sucks then you die, hell of a way to look at things but it is what it is sometimes.
I guess I always try to see the positive side of things, but every once in a awhile someone has to show me the world fucking sucks and I would enjoy flipping off the lightswitch to human existence until we have learned what it's truly like to be honest and good to each other.
I'm not sure yet but this may be my final blog, I don't see things the same way as most people, guess that's why my psychologist said I have psychotic tendencies. What I see is not what it appears, guess I'm tired of standing up for what I believe is right only to be slapped down by those who I thought I was protecting.
For those looking for someone forever, my best wishes in your search. For those looking for a quick fuck or fix to your damaged ego, good luck posting dick pics and no profile.
With that I say ado, to all I say enjoy life it's what you make of it that matters.
Lion🦁
