I read a blog earlier this morning talking about how everyone posts things about a sub/slaves needs but what about those of the Dom/Master?
Now People may argue that a Dom/Master can order the sub/slave to satisfy their needs. Which is true, in a sense, but there are some needs that cant be demanded.
A Dom is supposed to be strong and commanding all of the time but what people fail to realize is they are people just as much as the sub/slaves are.
There are going to be days when they are not strong, or commanding. They are going to be Stressed, tired, ill and exhausted mentally and or physically and maybe even heartbroken. This is where our love and care for our partner is supposed to shine the brightest.
Put down the phone, shut off the tv, stop begging him to do something sexual or tie you up or what ever else it is ya'll do, and take care of him.
Be quite with out the use of a gag and listen to how his day went, let him vent. If he is tired, ill or exhausted don't nag or argue whine or beg for things, make his home a place of rest and healing.
If he is heartbroken from the loss or death of a friend or loved one be the support he needs until he is able to stand on his own again.
They are expected to invest a lot into us so perhaps its time we start doing the same.
Any one who has read my posts knows that I believe any long term M/s-D/s relationship isn't to far off from a vanilla one. Just a bit more interesting.
Yes this is a kinky lifestyle where one partner has more of the power then the other but at the end of the day its still relationship, just like any other. There are going to be times when one side is going to need the care and support of the other. As any Sub knows its hard finding a good Dom/Master They are few and far between. So, when you find a good one take care of him.
