Hidden In Plain Sight

Ingénue{VK} - Overthink.

Bunnie - Yay!!! My favourite thing 😁

LustfulFantasizer - Analysis paralysis... In learning more about my Human Design, it seems that if something ends up frustrating me, by not turning out how I expected, I should just pivot.

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - It all depends upon whether it's still what you wanted, just in a different package. And was it your interpretation or the way it was presented?

I love curiosity. Sometimes I try new food and it's an amazing experience, even when it's a much different flavor than I visually imagined. Unless it's completely different than I imagined and it will not do.

SweetSirRendering​(sub female) - curiosity is great. explore!

just don't meander too long from your own path, if the two don't merge.

Jack in the box -
Bunnie! For gods sake pick one! We havent got all day, now do you want the cake? Or the pie? 😑

😁😘

Bunnie - Cookies? 😳

Jack in the box - 🤣

Sir Don​(dom male){Not lookin} - Curiously debating curiosity 🤔

flitter'fly​(sub female) - As I see it, relationships, career, life in general.
Is more often than not, always different than one would expect.
You may imagine a perfect man, job, family, or senerio.
But often times only get parts of the full want, and / or need.
Does that make one go look elsewhere.
So, what do we tend to do in this situation?

Pros verses cons.
In these relationships, we must ponder, ask ourselves.
Just because x is not a part of this story. Is that something that can be deal with, can I live without this.

In some cases, we choose no.
But in other cases, when the good, and giving, the want of certain things are given in abundance.
The pro outweighs the cons.
So to have something amazing and to give up (what 9 out of 10 times) is only a desire, not necessarily a requirement.
We then choose.
Thank You
I love this post...

Drinfear​(dom male){Owns PFP} - There are times when W/we build up the 'Ultimate dream' and that which is walked into falls short of the dream, BUT as time passes W/we see it's not O/our 'perfect dream' but what is presented fulfills U/us in ways you might have ever even dreamed of.. It does not give you EVERYTHING the dream was built to be, but gives so much more that the cons are barely missed, if that makes sense? LIFE isn't perfect, few things are in life either.. But sometimes W/we find things perfect for US, EACH of U/us finds these things from time to time..
I am reminded of another post which I blogged about at the time.. 'we don't settle, now' was the main point.. If it's not EVERYTHING I want, I don't want it at all, was what I took away from the post.. How many things that are perfect for THAT person have they walked away from because it's not the EXACT dream they envisioned..?
Just My 2 cents added to the wishing well..

Dom

Authenticly honest - When life gives us a lemon the best we can do is make a lemonade but take some time feel your hurt feelings and let time heal them. Time will do that because life must go on.

Ingénue{VK} - That's such beautiful advice. Profound and moving.