Random Stuff

amalthea​(sub female) - Yeah, that would be wrong. Violates trust. Be in all the way until said end date or not at all.

OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - Nothing they are doing "behind your back" is acceptable, ever. I think part of the conditional end date is that you both agree on the terms. I lived with an "ex" Dom for more than a month after our relationship ended and we were both free to find other things, but we had to be very open about meetings and the likes (none of which happened, it was a month, we were both hurting), we also weren't in a dynamic for that time.

I also want to say that even if there is am end date, if you want to/need to leave, do it. Safety or just the mental games people play, especially after things have ended and they can be "themselves" or the vile version of themselves that gets irrational or irritated with you for no reason, is not worth it in most case which is why people usually can't live together after a separation in the first place.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - There also needs to be a gap of time...to heal and regain that "single" mentality, before moving to the next...otherwise, the next is just a rebound.

HGB​(sub female){Scottish M} - Don't think it's right. Also wouldn't want to be that new person. Think people need time after a relationship ends before moving on.

Cressida Clytie​(masochist female){Taken} - I don't have to say anything anymore. The people I look up to already spoke 👆👆👆👆

TheAnt​(dom male) - When my former IRL sub and I made a decision to part ways, we still lived together for a bit. We set an end date as well but we decided not to engage in anymore D/s dynamic stuff. Eventually I made the decision to speed the time table up considerably and made sure she had coordinated everything on the other end so she would have a place to stay.
I honestly think that living with her past our dynamic was a horrible idea. It caused ill feelings on my behalf and caused us to isolate from each other in the same house. Speaking to each other about 5 minutes for an entire day, friendly but distant, is not good juju.
I personally would never put myself through that again.
-DA

Maxorde{Not lookin} - When they started looking, the agreement is over. Null and void. Adios, amigo!