Back but broken...

TopekaDom​(dom male) - While I can't say it happens all the time, it does happen.
As does the reversal: Something you thought might be interested in becomes a hard limit after trying.

The main problem comes in when something becomes soft (so to speak) for you but for other(s) in your dynamic it remains hard. Then troubles can begin

M'K - As you explore and grow in the lifestyle, your limits may change. Things that once were a hard no, may change to a maybe or yes. Things you though you'd like, may not be so in reality. I've been in the lifestyle for 30+ years and I'm still learning, exploring, and growing.
I guess my advice is this.... you're allowed to change and grow. You're allowed to change a no to a yes or yes to a no. Have those important conversations and don't be afraid to experiment in a safe way with the right person. Something may not feel good or safe to do with one person, may not with the next. Same as something that was a yes with the last person, maybe a no with the next. We all do kink differently. So feel free to adjust your limits based on your comfort level, your partner, and where you are in your growth journey.

Nothing is carved in stone unless you want it to be. Just be sure if it's a definite hard limit, that is expressed. Don't let anyone pushes you in going past your hard limits. I'm that case, no means no.

Hope that helps. 🙃 There is no black and white answer as everyone's journey is different and unique.

PrincessSweetPeaXO​(sub female){ } - Thank you. That helps a lot. Now I don’t feel like I’m a wishy washy about it. But I can also articulate why I changed my mind, most of the time anyway.

TopekaDom​(dom male) - Being able to communicate that idea is really essential, specially in already established dynamics when the change changes.

CtAndy​(dom male) - I've found that education about different things can often times change perspectives over time. A lot of times people place hard limits on things that they actually know very little about and once learning much more their perspective on the entire thing may change. It is definitely not something to be rushed into though. It should be something taken slowly, with an over exaggeration on communication IF you decide to experiment with something outside of your comfort zone. Also lots of understanding from your partner if you decide to withdraw at any point. Good luck in whatever it is that has you so intrigued.

PrincessSweetPeaXO​(sub female){ } - Thank you.

SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female){N/a} - Not to mention that it often can be partner related, Princess. Your limits and desires can definitely evolve whichever side of the slash you inhabit. Sometimes it can be a trust thing, as in you develop such a strong relationship with your Dominant that something that scared (or disgusted) you previously can become appealing. Personally for me it was calling someone special Daddy, I NEVER saw that one coming! Just snuck right up on me.Or from the other side, (beauties of being Switch!), I personally wasn’t overly drawn to sissies or male crossdressing, until I met someone who showed me how insanely hot and sexy it could be. Decades after I first dipped my toes in the kinky world, I found something new to me I REALLY appreciate.

TLDR: absolutely your tastes can expand, be honest with your partner(s) and talk talk talk, being open minded is only a good thing, if something has moved off of your ‘oh hell no ‘ list to ‘well mayyybbbeee’ and you have the right level of trust built up maybe exploring it will add something really fun to your repertoire. At worst maybe you learn ‘err, I guess I don’t really like that!’ And that’s okay! It’s not wishy washy or game playing to GROWING! Much luck! ~ Henna

PrincessSweetPeaXO​(sub female){ } - Thank you so much. I don’t mind growing. 😉

Eye-C​(dom male) - What you describe is often described as evolving or and growing.....we all change subtly over time often in spite of ourselves....it's totally natural....so enjoy the journey as you travel along.....