taxi's ladies

    thank you Villanelle for the quick decision  Repost                                                                      

                                                                                         curtesy and respect                   

                                                                                                   the party

     There was no time for Sue and I to talk, True to his word Tim was waiting to escort us to the Friday night party, I will be honest I felt uncomfortable this is a much less formal meeting to the rest of the people I have come to care for so much. By the time we got there it was in full swing still when we walked in everyone clapped and called welcome the party guard came up and introduced himself again and took our drink order not wanting to let things get out of hand Sue and I took beer and Tim not legal yet got a coke I noticed that the bunk house had plenty of seating with some dancing and others just talking. We took some seats and saw right away that the people who where dancing fell into two types either very formal or dirty dancing. Tim waved over a few people and when they got there he asked are the horses all set for the night after verifying all was well he then introduced the four of them they all stood together men to one side and girls to the other side all had their arms around each others waist. After talking a little I noticed the girls giving Sue and I the once over. When they left I turned to Tim started to ask when he stopped me and said it is not a question that is normally asked unless you are interested in one of them but I see no harm in telling you now that you have had the talk with sir, yes they are gay or bi as are many here it just seems to be that those just seem to work best for keeping things respectful between everyone. 

    Now let me explain the rules of the dance. All of the dances we do on the weekend are ladies chose that means no man will come up to you to ask to dance the women must come up to them. They also set the tone for the dance you see that some are in close and grinding themselves into each other and other maintain a distance this is also ladies chose and the men take there clues from you. distance means just for the fun of the dance close in means maybe more later. After learning the rules I asked Tim to dance and asked him to show me how to do some of them. He took my hand and brought me on the floor in front of Sue and showed me some of the steps before taking me on the floor and we danced he never once tried to violate my space. After that while he taught Sue I asked some of the other tall men and women to dance and was very happy to find no one even tried to bend the rules. It was the first time that I actually enjoyed dancing with a man in quiet a few years. Sue had an even better time then me she teased Tim without mercy. But what impressed me the most was a glimpse of what he was in light of sir James admittance of what kind of life style was practiced here. He deftly handled my Sue in a way that kept her at bay and at the same time brought her closer tantalizing her to keep trying but not allowing her to even get close it was at that point I saw the kind of man he would become. A true dominate gentleman and realized that I think Sue and I may have found a home.

                                                                                           finally our Time             

    Later that night Tim walked us back to the main house and I found myself hugging him I whispered in his ear take her if you want but remember who she belongs to I kissed his cheek and went inside leaving him with Sue alone. She joined me a few minutes later and damned near ripped my clothes off getting to what she wanted after getting me off several times with more enthusiasm then I expected and I her laying there wrapped in each others arms she said hun, be honest have you ever felt like this before? When I asked what she meant. She said, so relaxed so welcomed, respected so loved in a place I don't know I have always felt at home when you are in my arms but here even when your not in my arms I feel at home. When she said that and was laying back just ideally playing with my nipple I thought to myself to be honest I have always been prickly it is a part of my nature easy to offend even when no offence was given quick tempered and easy to anger it is part of my charm? But she was right none of that happened here, then and there I got up and signed the form and handed Sue hers and the pen and said welcome home my love. After going at each other again and again with a passion I don't think either of us had felt since the first time I fell asleep and had dreams that I can't remember but in the morning I woke with a feeling of  contentment that I hadn't ever felt before. And still do to this day now a sub to sir Tim and a mother (that alone shocks me) and C.E.O. of a large company I still come to bed every night happy.           

 2nd post today                                                                 curtesy and respect

                                                                                                   the boss

     It was time to meet the boss. Deb's and I knocked on his door. We herd a clear voice say come when we entered the boss was standing behind his desk with Jane sitting on his right and another woman more heavyset on his left. He then said please close the door have a seat would you like something to drink before we start we both asked for coffee black he turned to Jane and nodded she got up and brought us coffee a glass of something brown and wine for herself and the other woman before sitting. Let me introduce Jenifer she is the C.F.O. of our companies we both stood and shock hands and sat down again. Ladies in front of you are copies of the contract that I signed with you company as you can see it is costly but I suspect that you do not see most of this money am I right we looked it over and I was surprised at how little of the money we saw and told him what we were paid. He sat and said that's what I thought. he looked at Jen as we have come to know her and nodded. Jen then said it was what we thought she then handed us a piece of paper folded when we unfolded it she said this is what we are setting aside for you on a monthly card at the end of each month you are expected to transfer what ever is left to you own bank accounts you are not to inform your company of this money. further you will find a separate nondisclosure agreement contract do not sign it yet till sir James fills you in and you have thought about it. 

                                                                                         Meeting Sir James  

   He then entered the talk Ladies I understand that you do not shock easy so I am just going to say this outright have either of you herd the term B.D.S.M. I looked at Deb and she just said bingo I smiled and answered for both of us yes. Good he said this is the lifestyle we practice here so I urge you to not over react to things you may see or hear on the ranch also that is the reason for the disclosure contract I do not want the majority of the employees or guests that come here to be embarrassed. Enough of that for now I expect that you will keep in shape because of that Jane has extended an invitation to join her and some of the other women who live or are married to my people its up to you but as you can see at 62 jane is one hot woman and still as limber as a teenage Cher leader that she was and except for I believe one of the married ladies because her husband likes her that way. There is a room downstairs with free weights and other gear you have access to these as well it is co-ed so you will see men there as well. He then reached over to give us some cards and said one is your expense card and the other is your carry permit for the united states it makes you federal marshals allowing you go armed wherever you go. the last card is extra health insurance this will cover you for all the things your current insurance does not. Now last I want you to meet me daily for gun practice the only way to maintain your skills is practice.  Now ask any thing you want to know before signing on we will answer anything you feel you want to know. Before I could stop myself I asked what's with all the wolf jewelry? Jane spoke they are a symbol that some one has made a life changing chose given by sir or I kind of like in AA when you are given a coin at 90 days sober. But for something quite different but just as meaningful to us. Can we ern it? she smiled and said we will see we'll talk more about this privately later if you want. Then Deb's asked why us? He said from my point of view you came highly recommended by your company and that you where looking to change your assignment I looked into your background both in and out of the military and saw you where trained as high security guards and that you had already taken a round in the line of duty I passed you on to Jane to look over and sorry but her line of work is very beauty centric she took one look and said you would pass casual inspection as models in her employ.  Thank you for an honest answer and why the extra money? you are smart women because you will be guarding the most important thing I have and your pay should be equal to that responsibility. And you will find while Jane is far from innocent she can be very naïve in life and needs a hard ass to watch over her if she travels.                    cont.....               

                                                                                          curtesy and respect 

    Dinner was started with a cocktail hour from 6 to 7 it turned out that both the ranch hands and those who have wives came so I did not get to meet the maid sue came to my room she looked unbelievable she wore the same as me but she chose not to wear the bra the gowns were opaque and in just the right light see through hers was a light green that set her body and red hair and blue eyes. She said I know do we really have to go to dinner and the bunkhouse? I answered unfortunately I think its best but you wont be going to your room tonight I've been told they know about us and don't care. she smiled and said you look incredible we need to dress like this more often it makes me wet, now be a good girl and behave yourself at least for now. We came to the balcony of the stairs Tim was there he stopped us and took us to the rail where he called for attention and everyone look up he then said ladies and gentleman allow me to introduce miss Debbie_____ and miss Susan_____ they are to be our personal guards of the lady Jane when not on the ranch everyone clapped and called welcome. Tim then turned held his arms bent for us to take and walked us down the stairs  when we got to the bottom Rita came up and gave us a glass of Champaign and asked will you stay with Tim to introduce or would you like me to I did not even think I turned to him and said please he then looked to sue and she nodded and said please he said I thank you ladies for the honor of being your escort for the evening (I do not know why I said please or felt I wanted him there but I did) I know why now but didn't  then. After meeting everyone and my second glass of Champaign Tim walked us to the table held our chairs then took a seat to our right. 

    It was at dinner that I noticed that some of the men wore chokers with a wolf head or rings with a wolf head and all the ladies had similar rings or ear ring of silver even Tim wore a ring of silver except the boss he wore one of gold and Jane had one that sat tighter also of gold with ruby eyes and a large tear drop diamond around her neck. One or two weren't wearing it but the rest did. I asked Tim about his and he just said it was a gift from Sir James. When I asked him why he called him sir he simply said just a sign of respect and changed the subject to the dance after dinner weather we are coming or not? He smiled when we said we have to see the boss after dinner but then we would come over he said he would wait and bring us over after. Later after dinner sue and I were alone before going to see the boss when I asked her point blank what do you think is this some kind of cult are something, not a cult she said but its something. But do you feel it to when I asked feel what she said I don't know safe, welcomed and I don't know loved in some way accepted for who we are no reservation just accepted. Now that she said it I realized I was not feeling as prickly as I normally am as well like I had no reason to be defensive over being gay and told her so. She smiled and kissed me and said babe whatever it takes we have to stay. 

cont....             

                                                                                         curtesy and respect

      At around 4pm Tim said well I better get you back I think tonight will be a formal dinner so I have  to shower and dress for it. When I asked why does he think that He said because its Friday and the lady is home. It was at this point sue and I both felt it, it was the feeling of danger vague and undefined but there just the same, it is what makes us so in demand and good at our jobs, we both looked west at the same time. Out of the woods came what I thought was a ghost a man on horseback looking for all the world like a old style gun man wide brim cowboy hat that had seen better days long coat two guns on his hips as well as rifles on his horse that beast was where the danger was coming from it was the biggest horse I had ever seen It was of course sir James he leaned over and said something to the horse when he came up to us he said ladies please just stand still the horse was still looking at us like it wanted to bite us or worse it finally reached its head out and sniffed us in turn brought its head back and nodded its head. Tim , tell the stable crew to give him oats with apple today he was well behaved didn't nip at anyone. He then tipped his hat to us and said ladies I'll see you at dinner tonight and walked towards the house. I saw jane at the door still nude but on her knees head down till he put his hand down and helped her up before pulling her into an embrace and  kissing her hard and I think that was the first time I had ever seen a woman melt into a person. When I looked over at Tim and opened my mouth he stopped me by saying not my place or yours took the horses reins and went to the stable. When I finally turned to look ant Sue and she asked well I said I think we just saw what real love looks like and then said I hope we stand the test of time like they did turned and walked to the house thinking for the first time in my life I wanted to get to know a man.

                                                                                                              RITA     

    When I got out of the shower there was a rather petit woman around thirty in my room she introduced herself as Rita the house keeper and explained that she was bringing a dress for me from lady Jane along with the dress was panty, bra, stockings to say it was sexy as hell would have been an understatement I would were something like this to a gay bar to pick a girl up as that is obviously what it was designed for. I said I can't wear this around men she smiled and said oh you can as you will be wearing it for your partner we know how you lean and we don't care on this ranch it makes no difference regardless of how you go you are still a woman and deserve to look as sexy as hell, for your partner if no one else why don't you sit and let me explain. It has been decided that since your duties are useless here on the ranch you will be treated as guests and fall under my care. So, let me explain how thigs are here on the ranch. Sir James gave my husband sir John my husband that all those who are born male must be gentlemen at all times this means no man will come on to you it is up to you if you chose to shall we say take a walk with them. And you are not the only gay couple working on the ranch we have two other couples here they are the stable girls and guys working under Tim who is straight for your information as well as most of the hands here and a few are married so if you hit the bunkhouse party tonight you will probably meet them there. The maid has the duty of caring for the children tonight at the cottage and will not be there tonight but I will and you will not be alone in dressing to the best displaying your best assets so to speak. With this she got up and dropped her dressing robe she was wearing a high necked long sleeve dress in white lace displaying two magnificent breasts a short dress and white stockings and high heeled black shoes. (yes I almost dropped to my knees).  You are not the only one who likes girls for me its for fun. Now lets get you dressed and put your make up on maid is helping your partner before going to the cottage to care for the kids. Later I learned to really know this woman and what her influence over the other women who worked and visited the ranch over the next few years she was a lady in her own right.                                   cont.....           

                                                                                          curtesy and respect

    After meeting our horses Tim took his hat off again and asked us if we were ready for lunch if so he would walk us over and have his lunch as well. I was curious so I asked him why he always took his hat off when talking to us. He smiled and said it's just a habit to always take your hat off to a woman when talking to them just like you always address a woman as either miss or mam around here its a curtesy, and you will notice that the off hand is always used that way if danger comes along you can get to your gun faster to protect them. Deb's asked what's a danger here you don't mean from the men. Oh no miss but remember you aren't in a city and we have both wild animals as well as snakes it just pays to be careful. D and I just looked at each other and I laughed and said our city side is showing.

    Lunch on the ranch is a spread out picnic style so Tim showed us where to sit and explained some of the hands will be becoming up and introducing them selves to you it's not a testing the waters thing more to the fact that you are the ones protecting the lady Jane so they will want to talk a bit to reassure themselves you are good enough. Deb's stiffened and asked because we are women? Tim laughed and said no that has nothing to do with it, its the fact that it's the lady she is the hart of sir James and therefor the hart of the ranch so we worry about her all the time if you haven't noticed all the men are out and about walking and talking at a distance and about half have rifles'. (We did notice but did not mention it to him) about half of them maybe two thirds are normally resting or sleeping at this time several are on the overnight watch they protect the herd and the house overnight from predator's. What predators, sorry ladies that's not for me to say. He was right after we ate people came up two and three at a time to size us up.

    After lunch Tim brought us over to the barn and in back to the tack room to show us the saddles. He had us try them one at a time till we found two that fit us. He then explained all the different attachments. We sat down and Tim said I am impressed with you both you managed to attract two war trained mounts that says a lot to me. War trained are the highest trained horses we have here maybe they sensed you are warriors at hart. I don't know but I do know that they are 4 years old and have never even come up to anyone before. So I will have to give you more intense training to handle them you will need to work with them daily and hard for the rest of the month so you will be sore for awhile but it will be worth it. These horses are trained to protect and defend there owners they will stand at your back or over you if they see that you are hurt. There are more hand and voice signals they know  they are smarter then other horses as well as being bigger. If you pull your rifle they will stand head down and perfectly still till you fire no matter how winded they are when you do it. If you are hurt they will lay down and wait for you to crawl on them they will wait for you to strap yourself into the saddle before getting to there feet and slowly walk you home. or if they find a town they will wait there to get some one to help you before coming home. If they sense you have died they will pick up speed to get you home. The less intelligent ones we use as pack horses. We are breeding these horses for brain as well as strength. Any questions?

    How old are you Tim? That you can train horses this well. Long story short after my father died our ranch got into trouble with me going to school full time and not leaving enough time for me to train the horses Sir James stepped in and paid for all the horses brought them here and brought me with them became my guardian having known my father from the army I guess he felt responsible for me being here I got my G.E.D and have been working here since I was 15 in charge of the training. I started working with horses when I was about 11 with my father we come from a long line of trainers my great great grandfather trained horses for the army and my grandfather after him then my father  bought a small ranch and trained horses and showed me so here I am now. What can you tell us about the owner this Sir James? He frowned looked down and thought about something for a while then nodded his head looked up and said well I can say this that man can either be the kindest most gentile man you will ever meet or the deadliest enemy. Have you ever herd the expression big surprises come in small packages that is sir James. Either of you ever seen the movie the quiet man that in part will tell you what he is like very hard to anger but if you manage to do it run and keep running till the day you die, that kind of says it all he will not forget but he will forgive most things. and don't look to deep into his eyes you might see the monster there the one Jane has kept tamed and restrained that's why the lady Jane is so important to us I have seen the monster come out once not at me thank god but once seen not something ever forgotten. well lets go back the the main house it's Friday and that means early dinner and if you want come to the bunk house tonight if you feel like dancing and letting loose normally the bunkhouse is off limits except Friday and Saturday nights that when we let go.                 

       cont.....

Preface: by Mari

   For the second time in my short life I had to sit through what I thought of as the last time I would hear the voice of someone who had such an impact on my life. The other half of the couple that showed me what I needed to live complete as a woman and mother.

                                                                    THE LAST WILL AND TEASTIMENT OF SIR JAMES

     You people are here to listen to sir James last will and testament of a man we have had the honor knowing for 39 years as his lawyers and as the women who he gave his trust in all legal maters regarding this family and it's corporates and private dealings I am very glad that he chose to read it to you himself by video because I do not think we could get through the reading without breaking down someday I may tell you of the impact he and Jane had on our lives' personally.

   Ladies buy now I hope you have adjusted to my absence. Yes I know how you honored me in life but its time to stop grieving or morning me. I am with the first three loves of my life I hope as well as with my brothers who went before me so I am happy and still watching you. Now on to the reason you are here. First off John you are young enough to build something for you Rita, maid and cook and I have given you the land and house in the next canyon over from the ladies with your help I have managed to create a large cattle and farm enterprise now it is time for you to make your own it is my hope that you bypass the mistakes we made here or do something else because of your unwavering service to my family I have also set aside money to help you do it again only this time for yourself and those you have assumed the responsibilities for. You know who I have chosen to take over the running of the ranches and farm when you feel he is ready put him our place there until then watch over the ladies as I can trust no one else. This the last service to Jane and I will ask of you.

   Now my ladies as for you my hope is for most of you to stay together and keep the family especially the children you have honored me with together. In that line I have created a family trust if one or more of you spilt off from the core family this does not mean you are cut off you will receive the income for the rest of your lives and your children weather they are from my seed or not will receive there share. Now as of the current count there are 127 small and large companies that the family has controlling interest in as well as several charities that gain most of there donations from us and one major corporation. These are to be run by Mari, Debs, Sue and Stacy and her sister V. The family restaurants that are controlled by the family will be overseen by Stacy and V. The security company will be overseen by Debs and Sue you have impressed me greatly my ladies doubling the income in one year is a great achievement especially in that environment. Now Joe-Beth my dear brothers wife and mother of his and my children I have noticed as well as Jane before her passing that you don't not especially enjoy sharing your Dom it is alright we understand your need, know now that I am gone if you wish to go out on your own we understand all I ask is that you wait and find the right man for your needs then go with our blessings and our love but understand you will never be on your own this ranch will always be your home. Mari as the youngest and smallest of my ladies it may have looked that you were favored the most wrong you have been given and received more training then the others because Jane felt you would take both her and my place in the family she chose you to be head of the house I know you were not expecting that you thought you would just have to oversee some of my companies and you shall but you will also be responsible for overseeing the other families that look to us for leadership and support. With that in mind I want you to understand even though I wanted more time to explain business economics and learning how to read a men I have complete trust that you have learned enough. And Jane told me much the same when it comes to leadership of the future of the house all I will say about this is this is not a dictatorship you are there to help all the others to find their way. As The Dom of the house I have done my part to assure it's protection and security that at least you will not have to worry about. I trust both you and Janes training. The other families are known to the miss. K and Miss. J the lawyers they will help you. Remember your only responsibility is to the sub's and children of these the Dom's are on there own and will fall to whoever takes control as your head Dom so pick him wisely. Now as far as my I guess you could call it my pet project the twice a year trips to care for those who gave all they could and left themselves more animal then men I had hoped that a ranger that you have met would accept my invitation to become one of you her name is Jill and like you she is a tuff little woman but even if she does not accept me  know that when you are on the trail follow her instructions because she is that good unlike you she has received the benefit of my wisdom in woods craft and when to shoot first. 

    Please know in your harts and souls how grateful I am for your love and the trust you gave me and finally how humbled and honored I was to receive you submission and dedication. Now above all go live and love and enjoy your lives. that is the best complement you can give me and Jane. 

  Note: I had thought to include this as the end of chapter one. But was overwhelmed I still cry over there loss lucky for me we have the software that will take a video and translate it to writing so that is what I did then went back and cleaner up some of sirs wording and grammar 

                                                                                                                                                                                                             love Mari                                             

                                                                                         curtesy and respect

     We learned much from Sir john as we came to call him and even more from the ranch hands. And it started from the very beginning. After the testing was the first time that Sir James looked at us as women and said we are hired he then said go clean up and enjoy the ranch see me after dinner and he will explain our duties he then turned and walked away then said thank you ladies for a good time. Deb's and I just looked at each other and Deb's asked do you feel like we just walked into a different world or is it just me. I just nodded my head we showered and changed into bathing suits and tried the hot tub out Jane was already there with a bottle of Champaign and poured us a toast to congratulate us on our new job we noticed she was nude and asked if we could join her that way she just smiled and said it's the only way to enjoy a hot tub and wait till feel the water jets on your backs. she was of course right the jets on our backs thighs and calves did the trick of soothing sore muscles. We talked some what of her life and learned that the ranch is the only place she feels like she was home now not even her condo in New York felt like home of course she said when he is with her Sir is the only time she feels at home and content.   

     Deb's here: It was at this time we first met our current sir. I saw that Sue was interested in the young stud from the beginning he was 5'7" wide shoulders slim waist and solid legs clean cut boy. Made me feel almost motherly for him for some reason. He came up to us and spoke to Jane addressing her as lady Jane took his hat off and asked if she was riding today. She said no Tim not today she then introduced us Sue Debs this is Tim our  horse trainer and people trainer as well I couldn't stop myself I stiffened this boy was going to train me Jane saw it and right away stopped me by saying theses are not your regular horse these are chargers like the kind knights road to battel and trained for war riding them is different then saddle horses. I was impressed when he turned his attention to us and looked at us straight in the eye never looking down (to tell the truth I may have been just a touch insulted as a woman after all he was 17 and we were nude). he then turned back to Jane and said mam? She then said they are both military and my new guards. He smiled then and said very good mam I'll bring the horses out for them to chose there rider when Sue said we are not particular. he smiled and said you may not be but the horses are they chose there rider not you. First difference in theses horses these are not trail ride horses these are more like life companions if they chose you no one else will be able to ride them they will not allow it. 

    Later that day we met Tim at the corral and he let us in side separated us and said just wait several may come up to you, you will know when you are chosen. just close your eyes and wait. I took half an hour before I was chosen it was almost like I herd  a voice and opened my eyes to see a horse that was looking down at me, she stood 18 hands high at the shoulder 6' 3' wide at the shoulder she was all brown except for her feet long black main and tail she was beautiful and I was in love.  cont: .....      

                                                                                     curtesy and respect   

    We learned at the very beginning there was a difference between the two. Curtesy is something that all people deserve from the beginning Examples of curtesy  is opening a door for a woman. helping with a coat on and off escorting someone to there door. These are what all people deserve both male and female  addressing someone by last name until given permission  to use first name. 

    Respect is something you earn.

    The first day I met sir James I made the mistake of calling him  Sir as I had to most employers I have had, BIG MISTAKE. He stopped and  informed me and told me that I may call him boss or Mr. ------- but the term sir is something I and you must earn should you ever wish to. As my employees those are the only thing I may address him as. (note: sue here I was lucky as Deb's went first.) He then followed up by calling us Miss. -------- until we asked that he call us by our first names. The first lesson in respect for him as a fighter followed and as a marksmen. As part of the test as Janes body guards.

    Over the course of the next several months thanks to Jane we discovered respect for him as a human being and then ultimately as a man and  and finally as our master. For us this was hard as being a lesbian couple this was hard for us to accept mentally and emotionally because of our lifestyle we found it easier to look at men as just something we had to put up with. We never said we were prefect women or humans. But because of these two remarkable people we have learned to be much better at being human and women and calling ourselves both. 

    I love my partner Deb's with every fiber of my being. But I also need at times the feeling of a male in me there is just a certain comfort I get from it. So yes I am bi and always have been. Deb's on the other hand has never enjoyed the feel of a man in her she had a bad contact with men when she was young so bad she does not or I should say didn't enjoy dildos even with me. so you can see gaining her trust as a man never mind a Dom took a couple of years five to be more accurate. so allow me to wright how to be honest being around this man and the men he surrounded himself with allowed us to surrender to his love.

    In a way it started with the first time we met and interviewed as his bodyguards for Jane, he gave us the respect of not holding back when he fought us giving us credit that we where well trained in hand to hand combat, yes he soundly beat us but he told us afterword with a smile on his face that it was one of the hardest fights he had been in since the war. Higher praise between military people you can not expect. And when he tested us with the weapons we carried he said our speed was very good and said our accuracy just needed practice and we would have plenty of that here on the ranch as far as hand to hand he said his ranch foreman John was ex s.e.a.l. and if we wanted to train all we had to do was ask him as he teaches a class  for the hands four times a month and I'm sure he would welcome the addition, and he did. through this we learned the kind of men he chose to surround himself with. cont.....        

   Deb's and Sue? 

                                                                                                    CHAPTER ONE

                                                                                             WHAT CAME BEFORE

     Many of you know of our origins but for those who don't It all started with SIR James. He was a man who had great respect for women and demanded the return of that respect in word and deeds. The way he said it is about the best way it can be said    " I am a  strong man who was lucky to attract even stronger women".      He created along with an exceptional women by the name of jane and her younger cowife Dena the family. That we call taxi's ladies in both body and soul we are just that.  In the early days after the war in Viet Nam sir created a small restoration company this he grew to a point and then turned it over to Dena to run at 23 she started to grow that company using his guidelines on how he wanted to grow it and she turned it into a real estate empire along the way she learned to be an Alfa submissive, he then met an older woman by the name of Jane with an absolutely adorable daughter. again he went out and bought a small clothing co. and turned it over to jane to grow and grow it did. Over the next 10 years sir traveled and learned his craft as well as either buying or investing in many companies and charities till he came to Colorado and bought a ranch. Also in that time he would mentor other Dom's and trained and helped their Dom's to train them in the craft  and of most importance to him where teaching the difference between abuse and dominance as well as safety and protection. alas early on the family lost Dena and the child of there love. it was fifteen years before either Jane  or sir James started again to create this dynamic and only at the insistence of Jane as Sir could deny Jane nothing. thus the family came to be. we lost Jane in jan,1, 2018 to a car crash and Sir James in Feb, 20.2020 peacefully in his sleep. 

      MANY OF HIS TEACHINGS AND BLOGS ARE ON ANOTHER SITE TO READ  OR EVEN ON THE NET  UNDER   TAXIMAN AND TAXIES LADIES.

LATER THESE AND IF I CAN FIND THE TIME YOU WILL FIND HIS TEACHINGS AND JANES IN A BOOK  WE HOPE TO FINASH CALLED THE BOOK OF JANE and many of those same lessons will be forthcoming in this series with the help of Jill, sue, debs, and myself Mari along with Sit John and Sir Tim the most trained and mentored by Sir James                 thank you and hope you enjoy

                                                                                                                               Mari ?        

   All the words in the world if not connected the right way are useless. with these words sir James put a book down in front of me. It's title MEN ARE FROM MAR'S WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. It was old and dog eared and yellow. He said John I want you to read this it will help you to listen and understand what she is trying to tell you and it will also help you to figure out when she needs an answer and when she is just talking for herself. when she is talking for herself learn to just listen and remark only if she needs direction down the right path but remember she does not always need a solution from you she just needs a sounding board to see your reaction. And some times she needs an answer that only you can give. You are lucky in that I have trained Rita to be a good sub. But now you must learn to be a good Dom and that is a hard thing to be. Yet you must learn to be and the best way for you to be the best is to learn exactly what she is trying to communicate to you the more she feels you understand about her the more she will learn to trust you. some times you can say it with a joke but most times you can't. because with women and their feelings serious is better when it comes to her feelings. Simply saying you are not being submissive enough without explaining in what way is not an answer you must explain in what way and then listen  to her answer then the negotiating can start and trust can be obtained.