LongerJohnny(dom male)

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Polyamory-ville Horror

4 years ago. November 5, 2019 at 1:23 AM

Poly. Yeah, that's one I can't quite get my head around. Yet.
I'm curious about it, though not necessarily in trying it. Possibly, but unlikely,

Maybe...

ok, we've all had threesome and foursomes and thensomes and moresomes, but I can be somewhat territorial. Also, while outwardly I may seem all cool and into it, wearing a cape emblazoned with the name Superhard! written in one of the sexier fonts - within my wee, fragile heart there are different battles being waged:

"Is she more into him than me?"
"Why did they suddenly stop spanking as soon as I got into bed?"
"Does this condom not compliment my skin tone?"
"Could his cock really be that much bigger than mine, his cum taste that much better than mine, his morning breath be that less offensive than mine - could it??"

Might be that I could have similar concerns in any of the aforementioned -somes. But, by definition, never in a monogamous relationship.

Plus I'm stingy and I dont like spending hours in line for a 37 second ride and no one likes secondhand pussy and fine I'll just take my toys and go home!
I'm cool with the idea. I know people who are into it. I dont think any less of them (or more) than I would have otherwise. Live and let fuck, that's my philosophy.

So, maybe, someday, under the right circumstances, could happen, I'll consider it, but I'm thinking probably no.

Unless...

(orig post 8/19/19)

Bunnie - Lol! Great blog

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Thank you very Bunnie!

4 years ago

SchrodingersDinosaur(switch female) - Maybe it would be easier if you were questioning if your girl was enjoying another woman's pussy, rather than some other dude's cock? Might make it easier to consider the sexual aspect of poly from that angle, it's not an uncommon way to help ease the unpoly to poly. Most men seem to be reasonably okay with girl on girl. The mental aspect of poly is sort of the same, you don't begrudge your girl's platonic girlfriends, do you? She shares a different dynamic with them than she can with you. It's the same when it's not a platonic friend. The bond she shares with you is real, and the bond she shares with them is different but also real.

That said, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to share your partner with another. Some people are naturally mono, just as some are naturally poly, but there are also people who just haven't been exposed to healthy poly so don't know until they try it. All three are valid and acceptable states of being.

Good thought-provoking discussion here. Thanks! - Henna

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Just a story, this is not actually a thing. But you're right.
And I can be just as shallow and superficial as any man. I admit it, I'm not necessarily proud of it, but I don't hide from it.
I have no problem - in fact, have enjoyed - watching a partner with other women, or being in one of those -somes I mentioned, as long as all parties other than myself are female, and as long as my women don't interact with another cock.
Even if someday, somehow I became interested in cock I still wouldn't want my women to be.
Hypocritical? Yes, it certainly is. I admit that I'm that as well.
As for poly, sure, I'm up for trying it provided there are women only, for several W's and M's removed.
That far down the line if their eyes had a mist from the smoke of a distant cock I would't care.
I wasn't anticipating a thought-provoking discussion but I'm thrilled!

4 years ago

dollMaker(dom male) - Vile horror, wow, lifestyle shaming much.

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Sometimes I miss the joke so I would appreciate if you would clarify for me please - you do see that its ville, not vile, right? So perhaos you were making a pun, just like I was?

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - One of the most unfortunate things about text, whether for communication or storytelling, is that someone invariably misses the smirk on the face of the writer as he employs Wise-ass to poke fun at himself. Subtle self-deprecation does not transfer so easily to the written word.

4 years ago

Bunnie - And perhaps not everyone has seen the cult classic movies like the one you’re referring to in the title (?) which is such a pity that it’s lost as I thought it was rather clever lol.

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Thank you! I too thought it was better known movie or I might not have used the title of it as a pun. I'm glad it wasnt lost on us.

4 years ago

Pirate Queen - “Oh ya? Well the jerk store called and they’re all out of you!”
- George Constanza

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - That's the second time I've seen you leave that comment and I dont understand it any better than I did the first time.
Is the comment an insult or a compliment or neither or...?
See, sometimes I miss the whole thing.

4 years ago

SirsSunrise(sub female) - I think your intention came across quite well. I found it amusing !!

4 years ago

LongerJohnny(dom male) - Thank you very much. I'm happy that I didn't fail so miserably that no one liked it whee!

4 years ago

SirsSunrise(sub female) - While sometimes it is hard to ascertain the tone, I believe how you look at it will also determine or predetermine how you take it 😉

4 years ago

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Polyamory-ville Horror

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