I was talking to my friend about Long Distance BDSM Relationships and some of the inherent difficulties with them. My opinion was that no matter how much you like the person on the other end, no matter how much you trust them, or how much you both want it, there are just some things that cannot overcome distance. If all of us here, right now, got together we could make a list of a whole bunch of them. This is not a new concept or conversation.
Imagine you are a DD and your sub/little is several states away. You necessarily have a phone or cam or text-based relationship. Keep in mind that this is hypothetical so just go with me:
As a Dom you tell her, "You have been a bad girl. "She says, "Daddy, I deserve to be punished. Please spank me?"
Then this conversation ensues:
Daddy: Yes, you have been very, very bad. I will spank you. By text."
little: "Thank you Daddy. When I receive your text I will consider myself to have been spanked."
Daddy: "Yes, I am now spank texting you."
little "spank-texting?"
Daddy: "Um... Yes, or as I like to call it, Spanxting."
I started patting myself on the back, congratulating myself for being so clever. Thinking, Wow! By combining 2 fun words into one (like Bennifer, showmance, motel, spork, or funishment) in this case spanking and texting, I created a new portmanteau for the world of BDSM - "spanxting."
So I looked it up and much to my excitement Google was unable to find any such word!
Did I really just invent that???
Anyone???
