It’s just a journey

little dragon​(sub female) - That's always the hardest part. You've got this! Hugs

Grey Eyes​(sub female){Owned} - There is hope for you. Have faith, it will happen for you as it did for me. I was also strong willed, strong mentally, but had alot of broken pieces. Fear of rejection was my middle name. You can do it.....take a chance. Hugs

LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - You would be amazed how many subs are exactly the same and feel the same! Take it a step at a time and take your time, this isn’t a sprint. You WILL find someone but it may not be tomorrow or the next day but they will come around and it will be amazing! Xx🥀

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - *raises hand* sing it sista! I feel your pain.

SSG{ENM-TLP} - Been there. Done that. Still feel that way at times. Unfortunately, we attract the type of person who will do that to us by the way we approach the world. How many people who thrive on someone's emotional pain (in a negative, predatory way) way enjoys a bubbly, hopeful person? Very few. Even in the wild, predators look for the ones who are beat down and weak. (I just stepped on my own toes.) Consider what type of person you want in your life and begin cultivating the personality that will be required to not only attract that person, but keep them--never forgetting what you do to get a person you must do to keep a person.

On another note, there is another way to look at the rejecting party. It is a pushing away...if they would push away--they just did you a favor. Dust yourself off. Be thankful they don't have good aim and you dodged a bullet and move on.

You're not alone. Hugs!

CSI - You certainly aren't alone. You will eventually find your person. Hugs to you

justmeandnobodyelse​(sub female) - Thanks you guys. It helps to know I’m not alone. ✊🏻