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Takes from Abyss

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4 years ago. May 4, 2020 at 4:21 PM

Lately, I feel so useless and terrible.

I try to be a part of places but end up pushed out for not conforming to the styles of the popular. 

I try to express myself but end up being told I am undesirable, wrong to feel the way I do, and just whiney.

I am starting to feel like I have developed a victim complex. I just want to be involved, included, liked, wanted.

 

So if I offend you. I am sorry. I don't mean it. I don't understand how I am doing it. Please forgive me. 

Jack in the box -
You have not offended me ☺
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Abyss, trust me. I know what happened and how you were addressed. I made the same mistake and now, we are best friends.

Take the lump, forgive yourself, and move on. The lesson learned is "read the blog rules with more care"...

I can PROMISE YOU......it was an innocent mistake. You are new here and the person who sent you the pm is a warm, kind, loving, sweet person who loves everyone.
4 years ago
Abyssful​(sub female) - It wasn't that person. They were kind about it and were very polite. I appreciate their help. It was another who messaged me about my content rather than the rules stuff.
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Do not mention names here but know that some people can be quite protective of others here.

Regarding the blog post, polite becomes a flaming firemof love once they get to know you....trust me....they have pit me in tears on more than one occasion.

Talk to the person who was polite. They can provide guidance about other situations.
4 years ago
Satindragon{Not Lookin} - I hope you understand that none of us are the same. Difference is what makes the world go round. Hold your head up and be proud of who you are. There is a block button, use it. Nothing says you have to tolerate bad behavior.

Hugs
4 years ago
Max Heathen​(other male) - There is always a bit of give and take in everything, but my advise is never give up who you are in the core. They don't like it, fuck'm! One person's dislikes is another person's pleasure, you can't please everybody. Especially in a social community.
4 years ago
Bunnie - Sometimes cliques are just that... cliques. The very foundation of them is to project exclusion because it makes those “in the inner” feel special.
Do you really want to be a part of a group that you have to walk on eggshells to be a part of? I understand the desire to fit in... but please save that space in your life for people who won’t make you feel like this (your blog).
Some people’s heads are shoved so far up their own asses that *everything* offends them.

It’s always wise to self-analyse because I absolutely believe it’s a two-way street... take responsibility for your part... and leave the other bits for the responsibility of its owners.
I have always found you lovely :)
4 years ago
Bunnie - Comment deleted by poster.
4 years ago
SweetDemon​(sub female) - Fuck the haters i like you i think your a beautiful person
4 years ago

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