How to adress a Dom/Domme...

My choice is to call them Sir or Miss in a DM or private chat but no title in public forums.

If the Dom takes that as a sign of submission to him rather than a sign of respect he has self vetted h ...

Sat Dec 28, 2024 6:02 pm • 22 Replies • 1727 Views

Q for female subs - Which punishment?

Any dynamic has or should have a limit for physical punishments. A masochist would clearly opt for the beating. My own boundaries likely would make the beating acceptable but the wording is vague in t ...

Sat Dec 28, 2024 5:50 pm • 70 Replies • 4841 Views

Jeeze

A lot of wannabes for sure but not all. Unfortunately the wannabes seem more active

Sat Oct 12, 2024 4:28 pm • 36 Replies • 3290 Views

What's your dynamic

Not currently in a dynamic but my most fulfilling was close to 24/7 as was possible at that time Master / slave, monogamous relationship where our expectations aligned.

The aligning of expectation ...

Tue Sep 24, 2024 6:13 pm • 22 Replies • 2379 Views

Slave collars

It all depends on the s type and the dynamic.

There are too many variables to make a choice.

I realized this should have beenisted as an option after I posted this. Many will say it's dependent ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 7:20 pm • 8 Replies • 768 Views

Slave collars

Was wondering for those into ferich wear or collar and leash play what type of collar do you prefer if you have a preference? Solid steel, steel links, leather and steel hybrid, studded leather, all l ...

Sun Sep 22, 2024 5:29 pm • 8 Replies • 768 Views

Why

A few of the millions of possibilities

She got back with her ex

She was about to be cheating with you and had second thoughts

She was about to be cheating with you and he found the email and ...

Wed Sep 18, 2024 6:41 am • 25 Replies • 2154 Views

How much should I Share on first contact?

Share only what you feel comfortable with sharing. If a Dom pressures you into sharing more than you comfortable with, that's a red flag for me

Wed Sep 11, 2024 5:22 pm • 22 Replies • 2613 Views

Honorifics

I generally refer to Doms as Sir in emails and in private DMs in the chat room but not in the lobby unless they have given me a reason to do so. That's me and if you think that it is not appropriate u ...

Mon Jul 29, 2024 3:10 am • 13 Replies • 1209 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

Interesting topic. From a male perspective, I find this extremely difficult to navigate. I feel sometimes a simple introduction seems appropriate. Like I would do if I were to approach an attractiv ...

Sun Jun 02, 2024 11:54 pm • 44 Replies • 5174 Views