Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

If you have premium you can block ALL messages from Non premium.. that should do the trick..

Sun Feb 24, 2019 7:09 pm • 50 Replies • 28621 Views

So what does the 'no' in someone's profile?

I assumed it was " leave me the Fuck alone"....

Perhaps "Open" might be a better word there?

Wed Feb 13, 2019 10:03 pm • 5 Replies • 2294 Views

Casual BDSM?

There is NOTHING casual abut this lifestyle. The feelings more intense, the connections deeper, the trust immutable, in your situation there is no reconciliation with your feelings. in the end you wil ...

Wed Feb 13, 2019 4:51 pm • 13 Replies • 12105 Views

Online D/s relationships

Nawazakana,
I do not think there is a normal... it is the combination of 2 souls. However in my 24 years online -in lifestyle forums -there is far more deception, ambiguity, role play online t ...

Thu Jan 31, 2019 9:25 pm • 20 Replies • 10589 Views

This is certainly NOT the Norm in my experience.

Oops, I realize I didn't really answer your question haha.

To me, the most important aspect of kink is the mental one. Basically just because someone spanks me doesn't mean I'm submitting to them, ...

Thu Jan 31, 2019 8:52 pm • 20 Replies • 10589 Views

Contact with the dom

BTW owned ghosted us all... Irony? Lol

Fri Jan 05, 2018 2:28 pm • 19 Replies • 16054 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

My recommendation to block and ignore works on psycho troll posters too!!

Thu Dec 28, 2017 2:29 am • 50 Replies • 28621 Views

Virtual BDSM

In my 50 years experience---Short answer. No

That would be considered role-play and is in no way a real BDSM relationship.

It may work for some if you realize it is what it is.. a Fantasy.

Go ...

Thu Dec 28, 2017 1:18 am • 11 Replies • 16418 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

@LikeTheWaves

Well said!

Thu Dec 28, 2017 1:15 am • 50 Replies • 28621 Views

New to sub lifestyle

The Criterion for Acceptance- Gautama Buddha
"Believe nothing, no matter where you read it or who has said it, not even if I have said it-- unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common s ...

Wed Dec 27, 2017 11:21 pm • 8 Replies • 7481 Views