Protector Role

Agree with CSI on her interpretation. A Protector is a position that is assumed by a person that the submissive respects and trusts will have their best interests in mind. This can include public func ...

Sun Jul 04, 2021 9:09 pm • 10 Replies • 4846 Views

How to find the right DOM

TAKE YOUR TIME!!!

Best piece of advice.

Also, read the forums and blogs. “Most” of us are very open in them and display who we are.

Start talking in open forum and see where it leads. Just ...

Mon May 24, 2021 11:18 pm • 42 Replies • 18306 Views

Very new to all this

LOL. Him. Psyche is the her.

Eros

Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:25 pm • 8 Replies • 2306 Views

Very new to all this

Communication is key to what you are asking about. When you open up real dialog and let them in to your world and to who you are it builds trust. There is also the Consent factor. I am not speaking ab ...

Sat Feb 13, 2021 7:43 pm • 8 Replies • 2306 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I have always loved Greek Mythology. Eros, the son of Aphrodite and Aries, The Greek God of Love and Sex. In the Ancient Greek, his name means Desire. Being that I love to fill my partners desires ( ...

Mon Feb 01, 2021 7:07 pm • 267 Replies • 108015 Views

What is one question that turns you off to a potential?

I often start the conversation with ‘hello’ or some iteration thereof. I’ve written plenty of lengthy intro messages that go unread.

I always preferred those and I always replied with Hi! Lol

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Sun Jan 31, 2021 6:15 pm • 126 Replies • 41949 Views

Did I misread my Dom?

As you and others have pointed out, I think it’s more about what you want and need at this point. Taking him at his word that the relationship is not broken the way it is in his eyes, is it enough for ...

Sun Jan 31, 2021 12:26 am • 32 Replies • 12705 Views

Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

I was curious at the answers to the OP. But now I am a little dismayed. For the OP, have you had your knees looked at by a qualified person ? If so what did they say ? If not, please start there.
Ne ...

Fri Jan 29, 2021 3:58 pm • 18 Replies • 5599 Views

Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

Thank you.

Fri Jan 29, 2021 3:55 pm • 18 Replies • 5599 Views

Punishments

@Curiousmind - first let me clarify the “funishment” term. It is just a term some use for erotic punishments, specifically when there is a submissive that identifies as a “Brat” in that dynamic . Don ...

Wed Jan 27, 2021 8:08 am • 33 Replies • 11335 Views