What music do you listen to when Playing?

I know that we have a few created playlists that we use when we Play depending on what we are doing. I am interested in seeing what songs others have that they Play to.
Please comment. Would like to ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 11:32 pm • 2 Replies • 1339 Views

Punishments

@PaulW - you are spot on (in my view). Again, each dynamic is different so we do what works for us and ours.
As far as the disciplining goes (again my opinion) if it goes to the point of spanking, ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 11:21 pm • 33 Replies • 11121 Views

Punishments

This is Eros and I will add my 2 cents for what it is worth.

It is all going to boils down to what you and your partner agree on in the dynamics power exchange. Psyche, for example, craves that dis ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:00 pm • 33 Replies • 11121 Views

Punishments

I feel the same. Kinda diminishes my need for it. I am driven by the need. It is one of the fundamental cravings that I have.

I’m confused a bit by the view that a sub shouldn't want punishment or ...

Tue Jan 26, 2021 6:12 am • 33 Replies • 11121 Views

Punishments

I personally don’t like the term “funishment.” JS

~Psyche

Tue Jan 26, 2021 5:25 am • 33 Replies • 11121 Views

Punishments

I often think in the same terms as Curiousmind. I have a huge craving for being corrected and disciplined for the things I do wrong. I want the physical pain after doing something that my Dom doesn’t ...

Mon Jan 25, 2021 4:34 pm • 33 Replies • 11121 Views

Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

Yesss. We were thinking about getting a pet bed for me To kneel on and for a spot of my own. Thanks

Mon Jan 25, 2021 12:50 am • 18 Replies • 5371 Views

Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

Thank you !😊

Sat Jan 23, 2021 11:18 pm • 18 Replies • 5371 Views

Tips for kneeling with 40 year old knees.

I never thought I’d be asking this. I’m the one that has sat criss-cross on the floor because of my job for decades. Kneeling for long periods is proving to be hell on my knees though. I’m open to su ...

Sat Jan 23, 2021 10:19 pm • 18 Replies • 5371 Views

Should I ask for rules?

If you have a journal, you could write your fantasies in there.
Also, talking about fantasies are a great way to discuss things you would like to try.

~Psyche

Sat Jan 23, 2021 8:35 am • 33 Replies • 9638 Views