@Curiousmind - first let me clarify the “funishment” term. It is just a term some use for erotic punishments, specifically when there is a submissive that identifies as a “Brat” in that dynamic . Don ...

I know that we have a few created playlists that we use when we Play depending on what we are doing. I am interested in seeing what songs others have that they Play to. Please comment. Would like to add to our lists.

@PaulW - you are spot on (in my view). Again, each dynamic is different so we do what works for us and ours.
As far as the disciplining goes (again my opinion) if it goes to the point of spanking, ...

This is Eros and I will add my 2 cents for what it is worth.

It is all going to boils down to what you and your partner agree on in the dynamics power exchange. Psyche, for example, craves that dis ...

I feel the same. Kinda diminishes my need for it. I am driven by the need. It is one of the fundamental cravings that I have.

I’m confused a bit by the view that a sub shouldn't want punishment or ...

I personally don’t like the term “funishment.” JS

~Psyche

I often think in the same terms as Curiousmind. I have a huge craving for being corrected and disciplined for the things I do wrong. I want the physical pain after doing something that my Dom doesn’t ...