Golden showers

It definitely should be with a sub who wants to be humiliated and degraded relatively hard core.
Hard pass for me.

Sat Sep 11, 2021 6:54 pm • 53 Replies • 18208 Views

Golden showers

Probably the minority for subs, but it's extremely degrading and I'm not into that.

Sat Aug 07, 2021 4:59 pm • 53 Replies • 18208 Views

Who is in Charge? Surely it’s the Dom…but is it

I agree, the foundation of the consensual dynamic begins with communication about expectations, roles, and limit setting. It's a cooperative effort that can work when both people have done an inner se ...

Fri Aug 06, 2021 5:29 pm • 44 Replies • 12785 Views

I want to talk about Ghosting

I believe the level of hurt by being ghosted is commensurate to the level of emotional intimacy given to the other. Some people open up easily and can share every thought with others. But for some, to ...

Wed Apr 28, 2021 3:25 am • 35 Replies • 8243 Views

How to

I told him from the start that humiliation is a hard limit. He said no problem, because he's not into that.

We just don't agree on what that means.

A mild example is crawling on the floor.
He ...

Wed Apr 21, 2021 2:23 am • 18 Replies • 5736 Views

How to

Are you open to helping him find a slave? Even if you're monogomous it may be possible for him to have a nonsexual slave

I would be ok with him playing with someone else but it's not how he's buil ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 3:10 pm • 18 Replies • 5736 Views

How to

I told him from the start that humiliation is a hard limit. He said no problem, because he's not into that.

We just don't agree on what that means.

A mild example is crawling on the floor.
He ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 3:35 am • 18 Replies • 5736 Views

How to

Communicate, communicate, and communicate.
I read these wise words from experienced Doms and subs. And I guess we all think we communicate well but sometimes the other just doesn't get the intended ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 2:07 am • 18 Replies • 5736 Views

Communicating your likes and needs as a submissive

[quote="TBDom"]Great conversation and I agree with all that has been said here. One thing I would add though is my sub and I often will "lab" a new scene or a new idea before we do a full scene. For ...

Tue Apr 20, 2021 1:54 am • 27 Replies • 6663 Views

Sub drop or just dissatisfaction?

I wrote a while back about the D/s dynamic being gone and that I had brought it up with him a couple of times when he commented on my libido.
What did finally wake him up was me telling him I felt a ...

Sun Mar 21, 2021 7:57 pm • 5 Replies • 3248 Views