Using a safe word

There is always risk involved when a safe word is not used - part of the attraction for some.
I have met several subs who wanted 'raped', and I duly obliged - a safe word would have ruined the scen ...

Wed May 05, 2021 2:38 pm • 39 Replies • 10298 Views

Using a safe word

I used to allow them, but hated having to stop when it was used - I have found a lot of subs couldn't handle me.
Now I won't use them at all - I do consent and any limits up front and that's it set o ...

Wed May 05, 2021 2:03 pm • 39 Replies • 10298 Views

Online slavery

It can be hard to find the right slave to use
I am on a search myself for my TPE slave to further develop my sadistic streak.
I won't do online at all - real only.

Wed May 05, 2021 1:41 pm • 5 Replies • 5944 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

For using on myself, my current favourite toy is my Fleshlight.
For using on others, it has to be my cattleprod.

I LOVE electro torture

Wed May 05, 2021 11:20 am • 33 Replies • 14096 Views

Never masturbates !?!

I couldn't imagine NOT masturbating.

I'm a milker. I can stay hard after orgasm and keep going. I use J-lube with leather gloves.
I don't masturbate every single day and usually do multiples at ...

Wed Apr 14, 2021 9:52 pm • 104 Replies • 27771 Views

Let's talk primal

For me, Primal is a kink when the inner beast is allowed to 'rampage' on instinct, without hinderance from emotion and with a sexual aggression to match.
I have done rape-play, home invasion and sex- ...

Tue Apr 13, 2021 8:14 pm • 55 Replies • 17579 Views

Too nice

Absolutely a Dom can be too nice. I used to be too nice, but with experience, comes confidence. Now I'm a sadistic breeder.
Over the years I've met many subs/slaves who said they found many tops w ...

Mon Apr 05, 2021 12:47 am • 16 Replies • 6384 Views

What was the triggering moment that you realized BDSM was for you? What led to that event?

My turning point was a specific meeting with a big dominant skinhead who showed me what I was missing.
I was only 19 and I already had my fetishes of leather jackets, and shiny scally gear, but sex a ...

Mon Mar 29, 2021 11:17 am • 4 Replies • 2706 Views

Sex and where to get it

My sex and fetish addiction has always been huge and had caused me to seek additional BDSM/fetish pleasure outside my relationship.
Even then, I had trouble getting completely satisfied.
I have had ...

Mon Mar 22, 2021 10:28 am • 20 Replies • 7436 Views

How do you know what your fetishes are?

I am a serious gear fetishist, with lots of kinks too.
Fetishes and Kinks are very different things.
A fetish is an object or 'thing' that arouses you. For me it's all the gear - armoured bike Leat ...

Sun Mar 21, 2021 12:58 pm • 10 Replies • 4785 Views