The In Between Times

I've tried the erotic fiction angle as well. If nothing else, it is cathartic; and a way to live vicariously through the characters in your story. I've tried blogg posting about certain scenes and r ...

Fri Feb 09, 2024 5:50 am • 21 Replies • 3636 Views

Life Hacks

Use those sticky note paper things to wipe down your keyboard and work station area, as they will pick up dust.

Thu Feb 08, 2024 3:46 am • 23 Replies • 3255 Views

Initialism

In my old age, I still occasionally run across unfamiliar dating-site-related (or sex-act related) strings of consonants (For example, BBC, SPH, CISgender, POC, CIM, OTK, to name some of them.) I end ...

Thu Feb 08, 2024 3:44 am • 24 Replies • 4723 Views

The In Between Times

Lifestyle specific- reading, researching, learning, and networking. But as someone stated above, I believe skills to please a partner would depend on said partner. Once I am with one, I will work on ...

Wed Feb 07, 2024 4:10 am • 21 Replies • 3636 Views

D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

I think Littlegirllovekisses post just nails it, and that somewhat echos my own experience with BDSM.

It was like, being overwhelmed at first with these newly discovered feelings and heart-racing k ...

Tue Feb 06, 2024 4:31 am • 23 Replies • 4444 Views

D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

I would agree absolutely. And yes, I have learned a lot about myself as well, the more I have delved into this, and although my experiences have not really been fulfilling I'd like to think I have at ...

Sat Feb 03, 2024 10:22 pm • 23 Replies • 4444 Views

D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

^One of the things submissive newbies need to learn about the lifestyle is... NOT to do what you just described!

Although it really should be fairly intuitive.
It's just like going onto a "vanil ...

Sat Feb 03, 2024 8:02 am • 23 Replies • 4444 Views

D/S dynamic....Reality or myth?

Overall dissapointing, but I don't think it's all that uncommon, and here's why.

For me, and I'm sure for a lot of guys it was the same- I was drawn into it by witnessing scenes from a documentary ...

Sat Feb 03, 2024 4:02 am • 23 Replies • 4444 Views

Dungeons.. and not chains.. not whips.. but Dragons

Huge former gamer here. I used to dislike paladin characters (too "Goody too shoos") but to be the chivalrous guy who can lay on hands and heal minor woulds, and be in service to a spiritual higher p ...

Fri Feb 02, 2024 4:39 am • 8 Replies • 1393 Views

Meeting Up!

I've had trouble finding partners, both for kink and for romance. Even in the vanilla world, it's hard for most guys here living in the area where I do (where most people are coupled up early on) and ...

Fri Jan 05, 2024 7:42 am • 9 Replies • 2160 Views