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What Is A Common Misconception About You?

People often mistake my kindness and tolerance for weakness.
It may seem to others that I don’t have boundaries, because perhaps they’re not as obvious as many people’s, however, I do have them, and ...

Sun Nov 05, 2023 10:06 pm • 35 Replies • 8870 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

242

Balance

For me, there would have to be some balance between work, hobbies, social life, and worshipping my dominant (in ways both kinky and non.)

There would have to be boundaries set, communication in pla ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 7:10 am • 5 Replies • 2064 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Balance

243

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

Online feels too impersonal to me. I would have a hard time connecting with someone without face to face interaction, especially if that person were to order me into a "Compromised position" so to sp ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 6:29 am • 13 Replies • 5000 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

244

"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

Speaking partly from experience here: A lot of new submissives, particularly men, may suddenly be overcome with newly-discovered thrills of submitting, or wanting to submit. But they know nothing ab ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 3:06 am • 22 Replies • 5678 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

245

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

^The thing is, there have been a TON of women in the work place over the years, who I wanted to approach on a "more than superficial," level but was afraid to- for the exact reasons you describe above ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 7:11 am • 60 Replies • 13843 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

246

Being sexually open

Eh....BDSM is kinda like electrical engineering. You can't run home and tell your relatives that you just ran 1200 amps from a major substation to a new offsite switchgear. You know they aint gonna un ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 4:08 am • 20 Replies • 5196 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Being sexually open

247

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

Ah, icks. I don't know how I feel about the term ick, but I have a few. Disrespect is a big one for me. I get very turned off by impatience and over eagerness. Honestly, bad spelling and grammar as we ...

Sat Oct 28, 2023 11:05 pm • 60 Replies • 13843 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

248

Do Dom/mes Settle?

I agree with the above two posts and while I have standards, there are some things I am willing to compromise on, and others are deal breakers for me.
I've stated before that I'm willing to settle fo ...

Sat Oct 28, 2023 2:34 am • 13 Replies • 3825 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Do Dom/mes Settle?

249

What Really Turns You On

Knee high leather boots. Plus, physical strength.

Fri Oct 27, 2023 6:21 am • 94 Replies • 24360 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What Really Turns You On

250

What really pisses you off?

I could write pages but I'll go with the top ones that come to mind.
Going down the highway on my way to work, cop has some dude pulled over and is at the window jawing at the speeder.. and all the r ...

Fri Oct 27, 2023 2:58 am • 66 Replies • 16978 Views

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Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

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What really pisses you off?