Online Mistress"s

One good rule of thumb, never pay money to anyone you have not met face to face.

If they are true professional dommes, seeking mere clients rather than a committed relationship, then first of all, ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 3:18 am • 7 Replies • 1866 Views

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I do think this thread will lead to a lot of self-examining, which I can't help think might be helpful for people even if they never actually do discover the "Why" behind their kinks.

It is also so ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 6:51 am • 37 Replies • 5840 Views

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I have at least analyzed why I have submissive tendencies, but it's a complicated answer. Partly it stems from both a desire to please and a fear of failure, and partly from an admiration of strength ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 2:42 am • 37 Replies • 5840 Views

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

While I don't disagree with Lord Zephyr's points, he did come across as a bit condescending there, I'm afraid.

I think every BDSM relationship is different as far as the amount of commitment, contr ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:57 am • 13 Replies • 2672 Views

What makes you ignore messages on here?

Really...just a two word intro and then a one sentence come-on?

That is either a spammer, a bot, or a kid...or a newbie who is so utterly clueless and/or rude (or likely both) that they need to s ...

Tue Aug 23, 2022 3:30 am • 119 Replies • 28096 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

I'm not into race play either, but the only way I will judge/kink shame it is, along the same lines that I judge/kink shame people who are into snuff, dangerous or permanantly disfiguring play, or act ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:05 am • 34 Replies • 11133 Views

Panties

This is kinda, well I don't know how I feel about it. Thing is, I never wanted to be one of those stereotypical "Creepy panty sniffer" types, but I gotta admit, in private it IS kind of arousing. I ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 3:54 am • 6 Replies • 1637 Views

Participating in website features out of loneliness/bordom

Location and reduced number of compatible people may play a part for some.
This is part of it for me. I don't know a lot of kink-minded people in real life. In fact, I know very, very few.
I gener ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 3:49 am • 15 Replies • 4385 Views

Do other subs feel a pull towards doms in the workplace?

As a submissive, to some extent yes, but to some extent; it is a different dynamic in the work place where your income and livelihood depend on having a solid working relationship with your boss. If ...

Fri Jul 22, 2022 4:46 am • 7 Replies • 1273 Views

Good places to read stories?

I was browsing through Akashaweb.net and man....some of those were HOT!! In fact, I better be careful about becoming addicted to that site, now... Thanks for the recommend.

Fri Jul 22, 2022 4:42 am • 18 Replies • 3338 Views