'Can we talk? Can we be friends?'

I don't really pre-emptively message a lot of people on here, and when I do- which is pretty rare- it's mostly either to respond to a blog post or to a comment on the forums, and not with the intent o ...

Sat Oct 21, 2023 4:58 am • 17 Replies • 3833 Views

Different types of poly dynamics

My ideal poly dynamic would be different from most, and it isn't necessarily what is right for everyone. My domme would be my lover, best friend, and romantic partner, someone I would both submit to ...

Sat Oct 21, 2023 3:12 am • 21 Replies • 5856 Views

Checklist - Bootblacking

I just think it's hot...period. Not only because, I guess I've always had a leather boot fetish, but I get off on it as an act of submission and power exchange. And as mentioned,(said perfectly actu ...

Thu Oct 19, 2023 6:51 am • 5 Replies • 1817 Views

Checklist - Bootblacking

LOVE it! Huge fetish of mine. And yes, it was amazing.

Thu Oct 19, 2023 1:56 am • 5 Replies • 1817 Views

Check List - Cum Eating

As a sub, if I have an "Accident" then common courtesy would dictate that I clean up my mess.

If my job is to serve, then (at my dominant's discresion,) part of my service would imply clean up dut ...

Tue Oct 17, 2023 4:37 am • 18 Replies • 5629 Views

✨️ The Person Below Me ~ Game

True. But the person below me had an orgasm while they were being sit-down peed on.

Tue Oct 10, 2023 6:21 am • 217 Replies • 22749 Views

Pics in Blogs

I thought you had to have a premium (Paying) membership to add photos, but I'm assuming GingerMann is a premium member. It used to be if you aren't a premium member you couldn't add pics to blog post ...

Thu Oct 05, 2023 2:39 am • 6 Replies • 3510 Views

Playing with no Committment

I think what you said above, that "The act of surrender just brings an attachment of some kind to the one who teaches and plays with them" really fits with a lot of people. When someone brings you to ...

Fri Sep 29, 2023 2:45 am • 34 Replies • 8523 Views

Playing with no Committment

Late to this thread, but I'll try to respond:

I have engaged in kink/Ds play with paid "pros" because, like others have said, that is all that is available to satisfy my unique and non-mainstream ...

Thu Sep 28, 2023 1:08 am • 34 Replies • 8523 Views

Are Sex Fantasies Dangerous?

There was one instance where, I was dating a woman casually, and it was as vanilla as you could get; there wasn't even any sex - kinky or otherwise- or at least, I was hopeful for at least some vanill ...

Sat Sep 23, 2023 6:37 am • 18 Replies • 4018 Views