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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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Making the first move

I think it's totally fine for anyone to approach anyone. I don't reach out to people typically, unless it is a female. I figure that the type of guy I'd have a good relationship with would want to p ...

Wed Jun 21, 2023 3:11 am • 26 Replies • 9045 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

292

Hookups

I have, with a couple professional female dommes, and while it was fun and satisfying "in the moment," it didn't really satisfy the longing I had for lasting companionship and love.

Tue Jun 13, 2023 6:30 am • 60 Replies • 19386 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Hookups

293

New sub

I think, like many people new to BDSM, the feelings you get at first are really powerful and the fantasies that build up can be overwhelming.

What I would do, is, since you are in a vanilla relatio ...

Wed Jun 07, 2023 7:24 am • 24 Replies • 8033 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

Topic

New sub

294

Making the first move

As far as in person meetings, let's just say you see a woman at a bar, in pubic, at a party or social gathering, or somewhere in real life and want to get to start up a conversation. One thing I thin ...

Sun May 28, 2023 9:55 pm • 26 Replies • 9045 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

295

Making the first move

I tend to experience a lot of mixed messages on this in real life. On one hand, we get told, a guy is expected to make the first move, because women expect, and admire ,men who take the initiative, a ...

Wed May 24, 2023 3:05 am • 26 Replies • 9045 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

296

Making the first move

A good question. I can answer personally, with me, if I am interested in someone, I almost never make the first move. I might look over and smile at them, subtly try to let them know I am intereste ...

Tue May 23, 2023 6:51 am • 26 Replies • 9045 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Making the first move

297

Sexual awakening

I guess I have always been attracted to strong, assertive women, being that I was shy and somewhat socially awkward around girls as a kid. Strong, athletic girls were always my thing for some reason ...

Tue May 23, 2023 3:44 am • 4 Replies • 1836 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Sexual awakening

298

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

Being in a "Power Exchange Lifestyle" is a huge commitment- and for many people, with hobbies, jobs, friends, and outside interests, it may be more of a commitment than they are willing to commit to- ...

Mon May 15, 2023 1:41 am • 7 Replies • 3373 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

299

Need help with my blog

If I remember right, I think you have to upgrade to a paid membership before they will allow you to post pictures in a blog, but I could be wrong.

Thu May 11, 2023 6:25 am • 9 Replies • 2879 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Need help with my blog

300

SPH

Another idea for this thread: Having the "Tiny bits" either tattooed or (if that is too permanant) written with a semi-permanant marker "Property of Ms. (Her name) and '3"' (regardless of actual leng ...

Sat Apr 15, 2023 2:51 am • 19 Replies • 7282 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

SPH