Instagram mistress scammers.

I would just say, as a hard and fast rule, never send or transfer money to someone you haven't met face to face first.

If they are a genuine pro who wants to be paid for their time, then make an ...

Mon Feb 20, 2023 5:00 am • 12 Replies • 5531 Views

Religion and BDSM

I'm really interested in the connection between religion and BDSM and the number of male subs who are religious. Apparently it's quite high. Ezada Sinn has an interesting interview with another pro do ...

Sun Feb 19, 2023 11:22 am • 8 Replies • 3370 Views

Religion and BDSM

There was a thread about this a few months back, I remember.

I consider myself spiritual and Christian- a believer and follower of Jesus Christ and what He stood for. But I hesitate to call myself ...

Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:49 am • 8 Replies • 3370 Views

Blood and Electricity

I can't explain why violet wands and electricity don't work for me. It's just one of those things, like Sounding, that just makes me too uncomfortable (though the mere thought of sounding actually mak ...

Mon Feb 13, 2023 7:30 am • 6 Replies • 1971 Views

What do you enjoy more?

As far as floggings/spankings and what not, for me It is being able to endure Her beatings it for Her sake, more than any pleasure derived from it. Just, being strong for Her, and part of it, lettin ...

Fri Feb 10, 2023 7:12 am • 22 Replies • 6774 Views

Kinky Book Suggestions!

A long while ago, maybe almost 20 years ago, there was a book by a writer named Shawna Kinney called "I was a Teenage Dominatrix." I remember seeing a review of it somewhere, in one of those counter- ...

Sat Feb 04, 2023 4:15 am • 13 Replies • 3155 Views

Words Matter: Dominant v. Domineering

Speaking from observations as a submissive male (so take that for what it's worth): "Domineering" to me sounds like a relationship a good buddy of mine had with his wife. I was close with both of th ...

Wed Jan 18, 2023 4:02 am • 6 Replies • 1887 Views

Getting to know someone

For me, a meet-up in person is important, after no more than a couple messages- assuming both of us agree the potential chemistry is there, and there are no red flags, or it clearly becomes apparent d ...

Sat Jan 14, 2023 11:26 pm • 19 Replies • 6189 Views

Getting to know someone

It sounds like you are looking for someone who is decisive in his decision making and who appears articulate and confident. This might come across in things like the way he speaks (fluidly, succinctl ...

Wed Jan 11, 2023 7:09 am • 19 Replies • 6189 Views

Stripping and Femdom

I personally don't really enjoy strip clubs, and while I see what the O.P is getting at, I would have to disagree, and this is why.

Goddess Worship implies some kind of two way intimate relationshi ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 3:59 am • 25 Replies • 9343 Views