Why do people hide their limits?

Many people, newbies to BDSM, honestly probably don't know what their limits are.

They get excited about the idea of submitting, and are turned on by the idea of certain fetishes, or certain BDSM a ...

Tue Oct 05, 2021 3:13 am • 7 Replies • 2213 Views

Any words gross you out?

Please understand, I was not trying to "kink shame" anyone!! I am really sorry if you took it that way.
Actually I was actually responding to a post above mine.

I think the whole problem with th ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 10:13 pm • 46 Replies • 10759 Views

Any words gross you out?

I said it grosses ME out. I was not the only one who thought so, and no I did not imply anyone was stupid or intellectually weak. I was only trying to explain why I don't like that word in a sexual ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 3:15 am • 46 Replies • 10759 Views

Any words gross you out?

I actually despise race play in any kind of sexual context.

Thu Sep 30, 2021 2:34 am • 46 Replies • 10759 Views

Taboo kinks

Good question and yes, there are many taboo fetishes that I am ashamed of.

Part of the reason for my shame is I believe that some of these kinks will impede my ability to have a romantic relationsh ...

Tue Sep 28, 2021 3:29 am • 22 Replies • 10105 Views

Any words gross you out?

^I actually came here to post that very thing. You beat me to it. Yeah It is a huge turn-off for me, one of my top ones actually.

First of all, I am looking for a lover- not a surrogate daughter. ...

Tue Sep 28, 2021 3:13 am • 46 Replies • 10759 Views

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

This is why I gave up on the idea of online BDSM dating a long time ago.

There used to be a lot of young-ish (18-25) "Female Dominants" on the online dating sites who would list their one and only ...

Sun Sep 26, 2021 8:36 am • 23 Replies • 8608 Views

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

Mint chocolate chip is my biggest weakness.
That and pisachio almond

Sat Sep 25, 2021 9:14 am • 143 Replies • 30838 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Steel implies strength but at the same time can also imply submission and bondage; put a steel collar on me, restrain me with steel shackles, lock a steel cock cage on me, and for the right woman, I'd ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 2:37 am • 267 Replies • 107749 Views

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

There are different levels of submission. There are relationships where the dynamic exists both in and out of the bedroom, and to varying extents:

For example: 1) The dominant could call all the ...

Sat Sep 18, 2021 3:40 am • 18 Replies • 5196 Views