What it's like for Dommes

As a sub, I hear this a lot, and it is partly for this reason that I no longer contact potential dommes online at all, lest I be lumped in with this kind of thing. I know that when I was a noobie, ma ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 4:31 am • 54 Replies • 17029 Views

Water sports yes or no?

I enjoy receiving it more than most of my female partners enjoy giving it.
Giving- I would assume the turn-on is primal, marking territory, asserting dominance.
Receiving- it's an act of submission, ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 6:52 am • 55 Replies • 17930 Views

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

Good for you to have the courage to walk away, and the desire to seek help, and for coming to the realisation that it was a toxic relationship that was ruining you. Here's to you hoping for a happier ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 2:35 am • 9 Replies • 2780 Views

Where do our desires stem from?

I have never heard that theory before and I am certainly not a biologist, so I can't just discredit it.

Maybe the cat poop brain infection causes cravings among some men for "human toilet" play?

Wed Oct 26, 2022 6:01 am • 9 Replies • 2659 Views

Where do our desires stem from?

It was just a couple things that seemed to trigger my arousal. Watching documentaries of professional BDSM pratcitioners, having a strong woman overpower my physically; all of that was just a turn on ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 2:38 am • 9 Replies • 2659 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

I think there comes a point where you are right; pursuing a fantasy can be dangerous.

It can lead people to a dark place, where they either can no longer relate to the opposite sex in a healthy way ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 4:12 am • 14 Replies • 4626 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

I remember reading on some other forum, a question about how to discreetly be submissive or kinky in public.
One person mentioned how he would walk around wearing a butt plug, or women's panties, w ...

Fri Oct 21, 2022 3:16 am • 14 Replies • 4626 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

It is a common trap, to live in your own head way too much, especially if you are single and looking for the perfect dom(me) or sub. I find myself going there, and falling into that trap, too.

Y ...

Thu Oct 20, 2022 3:00 am • 14 Replies • 4626 Views

Any no sexual contact before marriage Christians?

^Thank you; that sums up my own feelings on God, Jesus and Christianity as well.

I believe overall, that God is love, whereas it seems others see Him as some sort of celestial dictator- quick to do ...

Wed Oct 12, 2022 3:22 am • 53 Replies • 11362 Views

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

My guilt trip comes from the submissive end, and from fantasizing about being on the receiving end of these kind of fantasies. Reason being, I worry that having these types of fantasies (which involv ...

Wed Oct 12, 2022 3:03 am • 34 Replies • 15903 Views