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Words Matter: Dominant v. Domineering

Speaking from observations as a submissive male (so take that for what it's worth): "Domineering" to me sounds like a relationship a good buddy of mine had with his wife. I was close with both of th ...

Wed Jan 18, 2023 4:02 am • 6 Replies • 2249 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Words Matter: Dominant v. Domineering

322

Getting to know someone

For me, a meet-up in person is important, after no more than a couple messages- assuming both of us agree the potential chemistry is there, and there are no red flags, or it clearly becomes apparent d ...

Sat Jan 14, 2023 11:26 pm • 19 Replies • 7118 Views

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Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting to know someone

323

Getting to know someone

It sounds like you are looking for someone who is decisive in his decision making and who appears articulate and confident. This might come across in things like the way he speaks (fluidly, succinctl ...

Wed Jan 11, 2023 7:09 am • 19 Replies • 7118 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Getting to know someone

324

Stripping and Femdom

I personally don't really enjoy strip clubs, and while I see what the O.P is getting at, I would have to disagree, and this is why.

Goddess Worship implies some kind of two way intimate relationshi ...

Tue Jan 10, 2023 3:59 am • 25 Replies • 10985 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Stripping and Femdom

325

Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

I have experienced plenty of the same from the submissive side, believe me. There are a lot of flakes out there. I've never approached anyone on this particular site as far as a potential hookup/date ...

Sat Dec 17, 2022 7:57 am • 23 Replies • 9105 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

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Scammers, Scumbags and Succubus

326

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I agree with you up to a point, there is nothing wrong with being ashamed of who, or what,you are.

My fear, rather, stems from how a prospective date will react to me if she finds out that "You me ...

Sat Dec 17, 2022 7:44 am • 24 Replies • 8003 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

327

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

That is extremely sad that the maledom/female sub side didn't welcome you. That is a travesty.

I don't think it was a travesty, but it was rather a simple matter of scene demographics. Much like i ...

Tue Dec 13, 2022 4:16 am • 24 Replies • 8003 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

328

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

I live in one of those states mentioned in the anonymous post. And while I am not actually in a D/S relationship, if it ever got out that I was seeking one, or that I was into any kind of kink whats ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 4:23 am • 24 Replies • 8003 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

329

You there!

LOL

Very funny. I hope you meant this as satire.
I think people are taking this thread way too seriously.

Sun Nov 27, 2022 9:08 am • 16 Replies • 4206 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

You there!

330

Re: You there!

Get on your knees. You have 5 seconds and four of them are past x

Awaiting Orders!

Yessh milord...
Right-oh!
Okay.

For the Alliance!
Defending Your Honor.

Sat Nov 26, 2022 10:47 pm • 16 Replies • 4206 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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You there!