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Drawing the line for Taboos

I would draw the line on anything that would get me in legal trouble, and/or harm my reputation and standing.

However, I understand that in some areas, the laws against certain kinds of sex betwe ...

Wed Nov 23, 2022 3:59 am • 20 Replies • 8456 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Drawing the line for Taboos

332

Love Hate Crave

Spanking. I wish I had more pain tolerance though; that "big thwacker" She had really HURT!
There was one time, thankfully only one, where I had to use the safe word with Her, and I think that was ...

Tue Nov 22, 2022 5:30 am • 1 Replies • 1425 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Love Hate Crave

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

And I would add that I would under NO circumstances should anyone share anything that has to do with minors. This should go without saying.

That is illegal almost EVERYWHERE, and well that it shou ...

Wed Nov 16, 2022 3:35 am • 34 Replies • 18002 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

334

Favorite Place to Live

I love Idaho for the scenery, the outdoor activities, the recreation, and the nightlife. Snowboarding is only a 40 minute drive away. Mountain biking; from where I live ,you can ride from your house ...

Tue Nov 15, 2022 4:15 am • 10 Replies • 3001 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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Favorite Place to Live

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What it's like for Dommes

As a sub, I hear this a lot, and it is partly for this reason that I no longer contact potential dommes online at all, lest I be lumped in with this kind of thing. I know that when I was a noobie, ma ...

Fri Nov 04, 2022 4:31 am • 54 Replies • 19041 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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What it's like for Dommes

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Water sports yes or no?

I enjoy receiving it more than most of my female partners enjoy giving it.
Giving- I would assume the turn-on is primal, marking territory, asserting dominance.
Receiving- it's an act of submission, ...

Wed Nov 02, 2022 6:52 am • 55 Replies • 20742 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Water sports yes or no?

337

Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

Good for you to have the courage to walk away, and the desire to seek help, and for coming to the realisation that it was a toxic relationship that was ruining you. Here's to you hoping for a happier ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 2:35 am • 9 Replies • 3202 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for it)

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Where do our desires stem from?

I have never heard that theory before and I am certainly not a biologist, so I can't just discredit it.

Maybe the cat poop brain infection causes cravings among some men for "human toilet" play?

Wed Oct 26, 2022 6:01 am • 9 Replies • 3203 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Where do our desires stem from?

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Where do our desires stem from?

It was just a couple things that seemed to trigger my arousal. Watching documentaries of professional BDSM pratcitioners, having a strong woman overpower my physically; all of that was just a turn on ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 2:38 am • 9 Replies • 3203 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Where do our desires stem from?

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Are your fantasies holding you back?

I think there comes a point where you are right; pursuing a fantasy can be dangerous.

It can lead people to a dark place, where they either can no longer relate to the opposite sex in a healthy way ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 4:12 am • 14 Replies • 5378 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Are your fantasies holding you back?