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Are your fantasies holding you back?

It is a common trap, to live in your own head way too much, especially if you are single and looking for the perfect dom(me) or sub. I find myself going there, and falling into that trap, too.

Y ...

Thu Oct 20, 2022 3:00 am • 14 Replies • 4832 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Are your fantasies holding you back?

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Any no sexual contact before marriage Christians?

^Thank you; that sums up my own feelings on God, Jesus and Christianity as well.

I believe overall, that God is love, whereas it seems others see Him as some sort of celestial dictator- quick to do ...

Wed Oct 12, 2022 3:22 am • 53 Replies • 11995 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Any no sexual contact before marriage Christians?

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

My guilt trip comes from the submissive end, and from fantasizing about being on the receiving end of these kind of fantasies. Reason being, I worry that having these types of fantasies (which involv ...

Wed Oct 12, 2022 3:03 am • 34 Replies • 16496 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

334

Permanent scarring

Miki's story of the "high school sweetheart tattoo" is one reason why I consider any kind of permanant branding/modification/tattooing as a hard limit of mine. There are, of course, plenty of other ...

Wed Sep 21, 2022 6:13 am • 7 Replies • 2650 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Permanent scarring

335

Online Mistress"s

One good rule of thumb, never pay money to anyone you have not met face to face.

If they are true professional dommes, seeking mere clients rather than a committed relationship, then first of all, ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 3:18 am • 7 Replies • 3855 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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Online Mistress"s

336

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I do think this thread will lead to a lot of self-examining, which I can't help think might be helpful for people even if they never actually do discover the "Why" behind their kinks.

It is also so ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 6:51 am • 37 Replies • 8770 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

337

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I have at least analyzed why I have submissive tendencies, but it's a complicated answer. Partly it stems from both a desire to please and a fear of failure, and partly from an admiration of strength ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 2:42 am • 37 Replies • 8770 Views

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Steellover

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Absolute Beginners

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Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

338

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

While I don't disagree with Lord Zephyr's points, he did come across as a bit condescending there, I'm afraid.

I think every BDSM relationship is different as far as the amount of commitment, contr ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:57 am • 13 Replies • 4510 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

339

What makes you ignore messages on here?

Really...just a two word intro and then a one sentence come-on?

That is either a spammer, a bot, or a kid...or a newbie who is so utterly clueless and/or rude (or likely both) that they need to s ...

Tue Aug 23, 2022 3:30 am • 119 Replies • 40880 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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What makes you ignore messages on here?

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

I'm not into race play either, but the only way I will judge/kink shame it is, along the same lines that I judge/kink shame people who are into snuff, dangerous or permanantly disfiguring play, or act ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:05 am • 34 Replies • 16496 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?