Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I'd like to make a comment on the point that "Closeted Freak" made above, that the quickest way to scare off a woman was to appear too submissive.

While, to an extent people are hard wired, it is a ...

Wed Sep 08, 2021 5:20 am • 47 Replies • 17962 Views

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

Most of the time, I have found that trying to pursue someone who is not interested (and explicitly tells you so) is a waste of time. Both your time and theirs. I just move on to the next person. An ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:47 am • 25 Replies • 6519 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

A cock leash (with my dream goddess holding the other end of course) and a cat o'nine tails for Her use, for those times when I'm a bit too out of line.

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:42 am • 33 Replies • 12975 Views

When is it topping from the bottom?

^aching cavern without lucidity...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 1979 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

It is interesting to read that while the numbers are certainly skewed towards submissive men vs domme females, the numbers may not be as skewed as the dating sites indicate- for reasons that the domme ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 2:54 am • 47 Replies • 17962 Views

What's your addiction?

Peas.... covered with WASABI !!!

Sat Aug 28, 2021 9:10 am • 224 Replies • 37118 Views

Verbal Humiliation

In an intimate setting, yes!
In a public setting, in front of other people, then no.
Small penis humilation, verbal degredation, in an intimate setting (either just me with Her, or with HEr and He ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 3:01 am • 31 Replies • 11728 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

My three favorite (That I've experienced)
Pegging,
Strap-on worship,
and Watersports
(it was hard to choose just three though...cock size humiliation, verbal humiliation, and spanking are up ther ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 2:58 am • 35 Replies • 10362 Views

On a dungeon search.

Have you and your partner thought about renting your own space and building your own dungeon from scratch? I am assuming you are both professionals, in which case advertising and gaining a client bas ...

Fri Aug 27, 2021 3:04 am • 4 Replies • 2188 Views

submissive mindset

When not in "Playtime" it is simply a desire to make my partner happy, contented, and smiling. To do all of those things for her they talk about in the "Is Chivalry Dead?" Thread- it is just how I was ...

Thu Aug 26, 2021 2:36 am • 24 Replies • 9180 Views