Is Chivalry Dead?

I always believe in treating people with respect, because I was taught that way, and I suspect most people with solid upbringing are. Hold the door open for women. Pay for everything on the first dat ...

Wed Aug 25, 2021 6:37 am • 57 Replies • 14494 Views

Teeth during Blow Jobs

Interesting question; I've had "Toothy" BJ's be the number one cause for my partner failing to bring me to orgasm in their mouth. It is an erection killer for me, for sure. Basically, as little too ...

Fri Aug 20, 2021 3:18 am • 49 Replies • 14820 Views

Artwork and BDSM

I do visual arts as a hobby, but I consciously do not create anything "Edgy" like that, as I want my work to be appreciated by people who would not be offended by anything too, shall we say, "Not fami ...

Fri Aug 20, 2021 3:14 am • 8 Replies • 2226 Views

Ending things

A couple years ago I was seeing a professional domme here in town, because as a submissive male, that was really my only option at the time to seek the kind of intimacy I was looking for. As most in ...

Fri Aug 20, 2021 2:51 am • 13 Replies • 4159 Views

Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

Every sub is different. I can only say that the most intense subspace I EVER felt, was after being violated with a fairly large (well, 9" long) appendage by my goddess Domme. I was just a pool of gr ...

Thu Aug 19, 2021 3:34 am • 76 Replies • 35680 Views

Favorite Toys

I love being led around by a cock leash. Having Her control me, having me by the balls- literally.

Thu Aug 19, 2021 3:27 am • 17 Replies • 4765 Views

What are some non-sexual traits or things that turn you guys on?

Assertiveness without being unreasonable.

Confidence

Independence

Compassion, And intelligence.

Thu Jun 17, 2021 5:01 am • 119 Replies • 31774 Views

Non-sexual traits or things that turn you off

Here are a few: My number one is hard drug use- this is a deal breaker for me. I'm not really a particular fan of tobacco smokers, but it's typically not a deal breaker for me; neither is, uh, smok ...

Thu Jun 17, 2021 4:09 am • 47 Replies • 12017 Views

Should people be discussing politics on a BDSM site?

I tend to frown on extremism- of any stripe, on either side of the spectrum, and sadly it seems like there is more and more of it these days on social media and other forums. I haven't seen it on thi ...

Wed Jun 09, 2021 7:52 am • 31 Replies • 6444 Views

Re: I'm very new and have a question.

Hello all, thank you for taking time to read this.
I joined this to honestly, find friends and talk to new people who share the same sort of mindset... I was wondering if honestly, if that's alright ...

Fri Jun 04, 2021 6:49 am • 19 Replies • 6217 Views